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Old Oct 16, 2016, 12:55 PM
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I think I'm headed towards a crisis. Or maybe I'm already there... What defines a crisis anyway?

I don't know what I can do about it. There isn't anything or anyone. My "support" sucks.

I just don't see the point in trying anymore. I honestly just want to give up. Would that be such a bad thing?

I don't see this ever getting better.
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 02:33 PM
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I know I can find it so hard to see how things will be different when I'm in a difficult place. But it does pass and then I am glad that I didn't give up.

So don't give up, be patient with yourself.
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 02:43 PM
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I think I'm headed towards a crisis. Or maybe I'm already there... What defines a crisis anyway?

I don't know what I can do about it. There isn't anything or anyone. My "support" sucks.

I just don't see the point in trying anymore. I honestly just want to give up. Would that be such a bad thing?

I don't see this ever getting better.
As you're in the uk, as I've said before, I understand that your "support" sucks.,.. I've been
Fobbed off, invalidated, mis "diagnosed" etc many times by people who were supposed to have at least some limited. "Skills " to offer help.... (IRL).

Anyone is welcome to challenge me and say what a wonderful mental system there is over here..

I would be a hypocrite if I said "it will get better" - without adequate support for mh issues life can be a struggle at best. But I hope you don't give up.. You have a purpose, however hard it may be right now to find it..
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 03:25 PM
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I will certainly not challenge you on the "wonderful mental health system"

It all makes me so angry
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 03:30 PM
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I will certainly not challenge you on the "wonderful mental health system"

It all makes me so angry

I completely agree, it makes me both angry and sad.
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 03:39 PM
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 04:34 PM
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I need help ,I just don't think I have any access to this anymore
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 04:39 PM
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I need help ,I just don't think I have any access to this anymore
What happened?

You don't have to say, I understand that in their "wisdom" they sometimes make the choice to leave people to "cope" ... Without their support or "help"
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 04:42 PM
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I just don't see the point in trying anymore. I honestly just want to give up. Would that be such a bad thing?

I don't see this ever getting better.
I have been in this situation before. I am going to say something a lot of people will disagree with. No it would not be such a bad thing to give up. I'm not going to lie and say it will get better. Nobody really knows if it will or will not. I do hope things turn around for you.
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 04:43 PM
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The just all seemed to quit at the same time

I finally got a really good care coordinator, but then she got a new job, and I have yet been assigned to a new one.

My T cancelled my last appointment last month. No word since for a new one. So, I feel so alone. It seems that no one cares. ever.
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 04:45 PM
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So, I feel so alone. It seems that no one cares. ever.
I know you mean in real life but know there are those of us on here that care about you & we are here if you ever want to talk.
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 04:46 PM
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The just all seemed to quit at the same time

I finally got a really good care coordinator, but then she got a new job, and I have yet been assigned to a new one.

My T cancelled my last appointment last month. No word since for a new one. So, I feel so alone. It seems that no one cares. ever.


I personally agree with you, from my experience they don't care

As Humpty Dumpty said were here for you
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Old Oct 16, 2016, 06:01 PM
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I'm sorry, HalloweenSkye. May not be much, or enough but you have us here on PC.
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Old Oct 17, 2016, 12:25 AM
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This has been a stupidly long night. Nearly 6:30am and I'm sat in the back of a police van. I decided to go for a late night stroll along a busy road with no shoes. Wasn't until I got to this road that I realised how stupid I was being but I also felt like it made sense. Well the police spotted me and put me on a section 136, means they can take me to a place of safety for assessment. Said place has no beds free so been waiting in the van for hours. I want to go home, not an option
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Old Oct 17, 2016, 12:32 AM
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I'm so sorry.
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Old Oct 17, 2016, 09:04 AM
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Sorry to hear that you're going through a rough time. I do hope things turn around for you soon.
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Old Oct 17, 2016, 07:09 PM
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Back home at last. Was sat in that van for about 14 hours. Spent a further 9 hours at the assessment suite. They were happy for me to go home, which was great as I had three hungry cats to feed... i think they're going to try and get things moving with the mental health team again. We'll see.

Thanks for the hugs and support, you guys are great
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Old Oct 17, 2016, 07:24 PM
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So glad to see you were finally able to make it home.
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