Silent suicides :(

I think this thread might be about this, people who don't scream loud enough and just slip through the cracks

Something happened irl the other day re "providers"

Once again abandoned, and I did nothing but try to be "compliant"

But scream too loud and ... ?

No wonder the silence is deafening

(This is not about anyone on pc)

As a once oblivious compliant myself, I never liked to raise my voice.
But have you tried yelling (somewhere private �� )? It's amazing, just letting it rip!
Sometimes I even yell at people, like telemarketers, I'm not mean, just loud, throws them right off. It's fun!

i don't know what happens when you scream too loud fuzzy...depends what you are screaming about I guess.

(((((Fuzzy)))))

(((((Fuzzy)))))

Hope you don't slip through the cracks.

I think this happens due to a combination of passive resignation and fears of being judged, rejected or controlled. If a person has asked for help before and was either ignored, ridiculed, or found the resulting treatments didn't work well, that might be another factor. Either way, it's saddening to see.

((((((( Fuzzybear! )))))))



If one screams softly, or is too weak to scream, they get no help.
If one screams too loudly, they might get help, but will probably also get scorn.

A person in agony is not in a good state to construct and implement an effective get-help plan.

Those who are supposed to help - are they effectively organized and incentivized to provide that help?

Hi Fuzzy

"Compliant" is completely understandable
And as you may know anyway "compliant" wasn't your fault, it would be theirs for not understanding, for not "digging deeper". Let's face it when you're "down" it's hard enough to get the energy/motivation/urge to express how bad things are without having to shout about those things to people who aren't "getting it"!!
But.........that was the other day..........there IS a tomorrow/a next day..........you deserve the support, it should be rightfully yours..........don't be denied it Fuzzy.........you shout as much as you need to..........we're behind you!!!

And..........your post kind of reminded me of this:

Nobody heard him, the dead man,
But still he lay moaning:
I was much further out than you thought
And not waving but drowning.

Poor chap, he always loved larking
And now he's dead
It must have been too cold for him his heart gave way,
They said.

Oh, no no no, it was too cold always
(Still the dead one lay moaning)
I was much too far out all my life
And not waving but drowning.

Stevie Smith

So here's a plea from me for anyone reading this who feels suicidal, to shout, to scream, to make noise, as much noise as it takes, you matter, your feelings matter........make sure someone/anyone hears you

Alison