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Old Feb 24, 2017, 06:49 PM
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Dear Fuzzy and other friends here,
I wanted to give you an update about my situation, as you were worried about me.
Without giving me any head-up, my nieces and nephew hired a lawyer to deal with my brother and sell the house my brother and I inhabit. The lawyer called my brother and my brother was upset at me because he thought I requested my nieces and nephew to do that. It took me for surprise and I think he understood I did not know about this measure taken by our family members. However, you never know, later my brother's paranoia can push him towards a different direction.
In any event, I am not going to intervene and let him to deal with my nieces and nephew. I know my brother will ask me to act on his favor (unbelievably, despite he does bad things to me often, he expects me to side myself on his behalf). I will tell him I will stay neutral.
If my nieces and nephew get the court to rule we need to sell the house, every one will get his/her share. I will be able to buy a small house for me and my pets. Before that, I bet it will be a mess because my brother does not understand reciprocity or that not only him but the other people have rights, as well. Hopefully I will get a good psychiatrist that will help me to cope with the difficult times ahead.
I will keep you posted
Hope you understand my English
Thank you for being there
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Old Feb 25, 2017, 05:57 PM
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Old Feb 26, 2017, 04:28 PM
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You are being strong. Good for you. Best wishes to you through it all.
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Old Feb 26, 2017, 04:51 PM
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Thank you, Gayle!
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Old Mar 03, 2017, 09:02 AM
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Hi Folks,
Yesterday, I happened to know that my brother went on a "visiting spree". He went to my nephew and nieces homes or working places to insult them and even verbally abused of one of my nieces' mother in law. He was not particularly angry here at home but these events give me a lot of anxiety. I really appreciate I have a place here in PC to talk to somebody about all this.
Thank you, my friends
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