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Old Apr 22, 2017, 10:39 PM
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My life has been on a real downward spiral for the last several years. I have lost several jobs, and relationships as well although honestly the relationships weren't healthy. I have little money and am partly dependent on my ex to support me. I can not get any traction it seems to do what i want to do..and it isn't like I don't try at all, It just seems like so much effort, and I keep running into serious roadblocks and set backs. My personal appearance and resume aren't good, and I can't motivate myself to do much about it. I just am tired of being so alone and trapped. My main goal right now is to sell my house and move into an area that would be more conducive to a good life..but I don't have the cash to fix it up to get the price i want. Even though I haven a Master's degree..I guess taking any horrible job would be helpful..but then again it might make me more depressed. I have even applied for some of them and been turned down. I don't mean to present myself like a victim..but I feel like whatever I do, it isn't good enough!
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Old Apr 23, 2017, 01:15 PM
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Hello, Kgord. Please feel free to ignore the question: How debilitating is your lack of mental and physical energy? Would you be able to fix up the house even if you had the cash?
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Old Apr 23, 2017, 01:21 PM
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I'm sorry you're having such a tough time. I can relate to so much of what you said. You're not alone. I hope you start feeling better soon. Are you on medication or seeing a therapist? Hugs coming your way.
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Old Apr 23, 2017, 03:44 PM
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Hello, Kgord. Please feel free to ignore the question: How debilitating is your lack of mental and physical energy? Would you be able to fix up the house even if you had the cash?
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Old Apr 23, 2017, 04:22 PM
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Hello, Kgord. Please feel free to ignore the question: How debilitating is your lack of mental and physical energy? Would you be able to fix up the house even if you had the cash?
I think so. I do work on it, everything is just so slow.
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Old Apr 23, 2017, 04:25 PM
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I'm sorry you're having such a tough time. I can relate to so much of what you said. You're not alone. I hope you start feeling better soon. Are you on medication or seeing a therapist? Hugs coming your way.
I am going to start seeing a therapist. I am not sure about meds. They haven't helped in the past.
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Old Apr 23, 2017, 05:40 PM
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I think I could do so, although I would need some help moving stuff around.
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Old Apr 23, 2017, 05:47 PM
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I am going to start seeing a therapist. I am not sure about meds. They haven't helped in the past.
I'm sorry to hear that. I hope your therapist is helpful to you.

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