Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 10:31 AM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,641
..........................
__________________
Hugs from:
little turtle, MickeyCheeky, MtnTime2896, Rohag, subtle lights

advertisement
  #2  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 10:37 AM
Sunflower123's Avatar
Sunflower123 Sunflower123 is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Jan 2015
Location: USA
Posts: 26,579
What's up Fuzzy? Want to talk about what you're angry about?
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear
  #3  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 10:42 AM
Rohag's Avatar
Rohag Rohag is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Feb 2009
Posts: 10,045
((((((( .......................... )))))))

((((((( Fuzzybear )))))))
__________________
My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear
  #4  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 10:43 AM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,641
A few things tbh....

Thanks for all the support you give here
__________________
Hugs from:
MtnTime2896
  #5  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 10:44 AM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,641
Quote:
Originally Posted by Rohag View Post
((((((( .......................... )))))))

((((((( Fuzzybear )))))))
__________________
Hugs from:
Rohag
  #6  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 11:06 AM
Sunflower123's Avatar
Sunflower123 Sunflower123 is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Jan 2015
Location: USA
Posts: 26,579


I hope you feel better soon.
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, Sassandclass
  #7  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 11:43 AM
Sassandclass Sassandclass is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Apr 2017
Location: New Brunswick
Posts: 673
Quote:
Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
..........................


I'm sorry you're feeling that way Angry...
Is there something that may help? Ie: deep breathing, meditation, or a long walk?
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, sugarbeeMe
  #8  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 11:46 AM
bigjim232323 bigjim232323 is offline
New Member
 
Member Since: Jul 2017
Posts: 1
I'm new to this .seems strange I've come so hated by everyone even myself.life has become so much harder
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, Sassandclass
  #9  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 12:31 PM
little turtle little turtle is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Jul 2014
Location: ohio
Posts: 4,045
we need an angry group here...there is plenty to be angry about...
i hope we don't take it out on ourselves...good fuzzy
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, Sassandclass, sugarbeeMe
  #10  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 01:07 PM
MickeyCheeky's Avatar
MickeyCheeky MickeyCheeky is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Jun 2016
Location: Italy
Posts: 11,817
Venting is good when you feel angry. So feel free to do that!
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, Sassandclass
  #11  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 01:43 PM
Sassandclass Sassandclass is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Apr 2017
Location: New Brunswick
Posts: 673
Absolutely! Venting can be a very healing experience Angry...
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear
  #12  
Old Jul 01, 2017, 06:30 PM
subtle lights's Avatar
subtle lights subtle lights is offline
Grand Member
 
Member Since: Mar 2017
Location: Europe
Posts: 884
I'm angry too...
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, Sassandclass
  #13  
Old Jul 02, 2017, 10:42 AM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,641
Thank you all

I'm angry about all the good people dying

I know this is vague. Part of it is when people are NOT helped by mh "professionals"

My concern for others is both my gift and my "flaw"

I hate it when people are given up on and told to learn to.. in the uk. The whole culture is ....

I don't have the words to express ...

I appreciate all the listening ears .. it's not an easy skill
__________________
Hugs from:
Rohag
  #14  
Old Jul 02, 2017, 10:57 AM
sugarbeeMe's Avatar
sugarbeeMe sugarbeeMe is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2017
Posts: 203
Anger is such an important emotion- some people are afraid of anger. This can be a safe place to express it. Why are you angry?
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, Sassandclass
  #15  
Old Jul 02, 2017, 11:23 AM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,641
I'm angry about having to lie to people in "real" life to be tolerated.. not loved, just tolerated. One exception papa bear I still have to be very careful what I say to him though and hide my pain.

I'm angry at the Complete lack of comprehension of the "medical professionals" in this forest, I have not found one who listens.... one did listen (for maybe a total of 30 minutes) for a while, then moved out of the area

I'm angry at people who fling labels out... often they are talking about their own "shortcomings"
__________________
Hugs from:
little turtle, Rohag
Thanks for this!
little turtle, Sassandclass, sugarbeeMe
  #16  
Old Jul 02, 2017, 11:41 AM
sugarbeeMe's Avatar
sugarbeeMe sugarbeeMe is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2017
Posts: 203
To me- anger tells me to do something. It tells me something is not right. If I do something to help correct the problem- I feel better- whether it works or not. For me, I need to know I did something. This is probably a stupid question- please forgive. Is there some small thing you can do in a positive direction to effect this horrible system that is not working properly? ❤️
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear
  #17  
Old Jul 02, 2017, 01:27 PM
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear Fuzzybear is offline
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,641
I honestly wish I knew.... I think they beat people down emotionally for so many years that only the "strongest" survive at all. I would not call anyone who "ends it" or who "cries out in pain" .. "weak"

There are exceptions,.. some professionals help despite the "system"

I have found this to be rare.. to actually help rather than to offer "palliative care" at best

I would not blame or label someone in extreme distress for "taking up resources"

But these things happen in the "system"



People are told to "help themselves" but are not offered any useful tools to do this

Maybe honest sharing could help, either here or in an in "real" life support group.

I cannot crawl inside any of these medics minds and assess their "personality" or their motivation.. but I can make an educated guess
__________________
Hugs from:
Rohag
  #18  
Old Jul 02, 2017, 01:54 PM
sugarbeeMe's Avatar
sugarbeeMe sugarbeeMe is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2017
Posts: 203
Letters to authority?? If you happen upon the right person sometimes it can make a difference.
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear
  #19  
Old Jul 02, 2017, 02:29 PM
Rohag's Avatar
Rohag Rohag is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Feb 2009
Posts: 10,045
Quote:
Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
to actually help rather than to offer "palliative care"
Help beyond palliative care...
That would be nice.

I'm thinking of myself, and of you and of other posters...
Quote:
Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
I cannot crawl inside any of these medics minds and assess their "personality" or their motivation.. but I can make an educated guess
Experience has equipped you to make those educated guesses.
__________________
My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear
  #20  
Old Jul 02, 2017, 02:50 PM
mccarrolmike's Avatar
mccarrolmike mccarrolmike is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Jun 2017
Posts: 333
I'm sorry that you are experiencing this.
I know words are easier said than done,
Believe strongly in yourself, that you will get past this.
I believe that you will get passed this.

I wish I knew exactly what tell you so you wouldn't feel this way.
I hope that you know I am here if you ever need to talk.
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear
Reply
Views: 709

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 12:04 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.