[Born2Fly71]

My girlfriend thinks that I don't love her. I wish she had a better understanding of major depression. She makes all of my plans for me. I have a daughter who just started high school, and my GF has two daughters who are about to go back to school. My daughter had a tough week with all AP classes. I had to cancel plans to see my girlfriends daughter play in a violin recital. I am also caring for an ailing 81 year old father. I have lost interest in all of the activities that have been planned for me. I simply want my down time after work and on the weekends. Normal people tend to want many activities in their lives, but my M.D. just makes me lose energy and interest. She doesn't seem to want to deal with the realities of my disease. Tired of her planning everything and getting mad when I say no.

[Sunflower123]

I'm sorry you're having such a tough time. Depression does suck the motivation, interest and joy out of life. Can you have a conversation with your girlfriend so she has a better understanding? Considering your limited energy right now, set priorities and boundaries and stick to them. Sending big hugs.

[Fuzzybear]

[Crook32]

I believe NAMI has info or programs for loved ones to help them understand better. Check to see if they are in your area.

[MickeyCheeky]

Have you talked to her about this? I think it's very important.

[Born2Fly71]

Originally Posted by Crook32

I believe NAMI has info or programs for loved ones to help them understand better. Check to see if they are in your area.

She is a manager for medical students, and knows the deal with depression in relationships. I think she just wants to have the control of everything. Her own issues she needs to deal with from an abusive ex-husband.

[hopealwayz]

So sorry that you're going through this.