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Old Oct 28, 2017, 09:26 AM
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I used to be forgiving of Narcissistic abuse . I thought the Narcissist might be capable of perceiving the truth, that I am none of the things they projected onto me. That it’s a part of themselves they hate . I spent too many years trying to find empathy in parental units who were so capable at finding my real, or imagined flaws, and who had ????? none themselves. ??? I seem to attract Malignant Narcissists like a magnet. . I have respect for those with Narcissistic traits who actually work on themselves. It isn’t their fault their parents were.. how they were / are. But I am NOT a trash can for anyone’s disowned failings and hate

I’ve sent in my notice to a certain “job” (irl)

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Old Oct 28, 2017, 10:19 AM
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I used to be forgiving of Narcissistic abuse . I thought the Narcissist might be capable of perceiving the truth, that I am none of the things they projected onto me. That it’s a part of themselves they hate . I spent too many years trying to find empathy in parental units who were so capable at finding my real, or imagined flaws, and who had ????? none themselves. ??? I seem to attract Malignant Narcissists like a magnet. . I have respect for those with Narcissistic traits who actually work on themselves. It isn’t their fault their parents were.. how they were / are. But I am NOT a trash can for anyone’s disowned failings and hate

I’ve sent in my notice to a certain “job” (irl)

Respectful regards!

(Not about anyone on pc)
fuzzy can you say more...who are you having trouble with...
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Old Oct 28, 2017, 10:25 AM
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Anyone who thinks I’m dumb and will fall for their lies

Anyone who calls the “kettle” (me ) black to avoid their own darkness

I’ve been on other places in the internet recently (as well as at “work” )

My radar for abuse is acute, but also, I think, is accurate

(Not about anyone on pc)
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Old Oct 28, 2017, 10:33 AM
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Anyone who thinks I’m dumb and will fall for their lies

Anyone who calls the “kettle” (me ) black to avoid their own darkness

I’ve been on other places in the internet recently (as well as at “work” )

My radar for abuse is acute, but also, I think, is accurate

(Not about anyone on pc)
fuzzy I know what you are talking about...I think
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Old Oct 28, 2017, 12:20 PM
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My radar for abuse is acute, but also, I think, is accurate
You've had (too many) years of experience using, adjusting and interpreting that radar. Trust yourself.

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Old Oct 28, 2017, 01:52 PM
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That's great that you've handed in your notice. You didn't sound happy there. You need to be around people who appreciate The Bear!
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Old Oct 28, 2017, 02:41 PM
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Ha! Wonderful. Don’t look back





Narcissistic jerks <shakes fist in the air>

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Old Oct 28, 2017, 02:48 PM
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Narcissistic jerks <shakes fist in the air>

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I add my not so respectful ggrrrrrrr to Narcissistic jerks who have harmed anyone in this thread.





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Old Oct 28, 2017, 02:49 PM
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That's great that you've handed in your notice. You didn't sound happy there. You need to be around people who appreciate The Bear!


they really were jerks there. How dare they sssssss

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Old Oct 28, 2017, 02:50 PM
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You've had (too many) years of experience using, adjusting and interpreting that radar. Trust yourself.

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So true and insightful. Thank you for some sanity in this insane world

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Old Oct 28, 2017, 02:52 PM
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fuzzy I know what you are talking about...I think
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Old Oct 28, 2017, 03:11 PM
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Keep living your truth!

I am sorry you were hurt.


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Old Oct 28, 2017, 03:12 PM
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I used to be forgiving of Narcissistic abuse . I thought the Narcissist might be capable of perceiving the truth, that I am none of the things they projected onto me. That it’s a part of themselves they hate . I spent too many years trying to find empathy in parental units who were so capable at finding my real, or imagined flaws, and who had ????? none themselves. ??? I seem to attract Malignant Narcissists like a magnet. . I have respect for those with Narcissistic traits who actually work on themselves. It isn’t their fault their parents were.. how they were / are. But I am NOT a trash can for anyone’s disowned failings and hate

I’ve sent in my notice to a certain “job” (irl)

Respectful regards!

(Not about anyone on pc)
I completely understand what you are saying and how you feel. I feel the same way. Big hugs!
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Old Oct 28, 2017, 03:13 PM
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Anyone who thinks I’m dumb and will fall for their lies

Anyone who calls the “kettle” (me ) black to avoid their own darkness

I’ve been on other places in the internet recently (as well as at “work” )

My radar for abuse is acute, but also, I think, is accurate

(Not about anyone on pc)
Amen! I completely feel this way half the time.
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Old Oct 28, 2017, 03:15 PM
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Ha! Wonderful. Don’t look back





Narcissistic jerks <shakes fist in the air>

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Sometime it about taking away there power and saying no more. That make you a strong person.
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Old Oct 28, 2017, 03:17 PM
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they really were jerks there. How dare they sssssss

Amen! Exactly how I feel!
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Old Oct 28, 2017, 03:27 PM
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Keep living your truth!

I am sorry you were hurt.


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