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#1
Nov 08, 2007, 01:36 PM
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I just found out my cousin, 8 years old, is in child protective custody
 a babysitter is accused of sexual abuse... ... in all liklihood she will not be returning home, ever... nothing i can do... but
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Nov 08, 2007, 01:43 PM
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Oh, that is just awful! I am really sorry this is happening to you and your family!
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#3
Nov 08, 2007, 01:46 PM
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ty sabrina... god i wish there was something i could do... but there isn't... she was so pure and innocent... i don't know how she's doing.. i just want to hold her and make it all go away...
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Nov 08, 2007, 01:47 PM
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I'm so sorry, that's horrible
 
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Nov 08, 2007, 01:55 PM
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thank you fuzzy...
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#6
Nov 08, 2007, 07:31 PM
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((((((((((((nowheretorun))))))))))
I'm so very sorry this is happening to your family. I so hope something works out, if it was the babysitter, why are the parents and child being separated? Isn't that going to be worse for the little girl? My thoughts are with the poor little girl and her family, she needs so much love right now, may she be safe, loved and please angles look down on her and keep her from any more harm. love, metime my thoughts will be with you too honey sending gentle and caring hugs
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#7
Nov 08, 2007, 08:08 PM
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this is all still new and happening... from what i understand so far, her mother knew it was happening... yes, it is the little girl i can't get out of my mind... today i just want two hours alone with this guy...
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#8
Nov 08, 2007, 08:14 PM
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aside from the physical abuse, i keep imagining her trusting eyes while he lied...
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#9
Nov 08, 2007, 08:37 PM
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so sorry.......so familiar
take care
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#10
Nov 08, 2007, 08:52 PM
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i'm sorry sweetie... i tried to put a trigger icon on these but i can't edit it now... (((((metime))))
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Nov 08, 2007, 09:12 PM
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(((((((nowheretorun))))))
I'm so sorry to hear about that ... i wish there were something that we could do to help
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#12
Nov 08, 2007, 09:47 PM
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thank you jacq.. we can share this boat together... i see from your post the rides a little bumpy on your side too ...
i know that forgiveness is divine and its my philosophy to love all... and yet.. i imagined what i would do with two hours with this dude if i had it... kindness and anger would combine and i would yell and yell... but its the part of me that wants to hurt him.. toteach a lesson that i'm struggling with... i want him to feel the same humiliation and degradation and i want to be the one who teaches him... i want to see him cry.... thank you for listening... |
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Nov 08, 2007, 10:56 PM
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I think its very natural for you to feel this way. I understand how you're philosophy is to love, but you are human, and its completely understandable how it would be difficult for you to still love him given how much pain he has caused for your family.
In time he will understand what he has done, and if he has a little bit of human left in him than he will feel humility.
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#14
Nov 08, 2007, 11:31 PM
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thank you for being here jacq... i just feel so
  i get what you're saying...it helps the way you see it... really, i don't want anyone to feel pain... not her, not him, not me, not you... it is what it is... i just miss my little girl...
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Nov 08, 2007, 11:32 PM
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thank you for being here jacq... i just feel so
i get what you're saying...it helps the way you see it... really, i don't want anyone to feel pain... not her, not him, not me, not you... not anyone... it is what it is... i miss my little girl...
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#16
Nov 09, 2007, 12:10 AM
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(((((((((nowheretorun))))))))))
Of course you don't want anyone to feel pain, but unfortunately, not you, nor anyone can change what happened. All you can do is show your love for her, and be there. Just be who you are. No one can ask for anymore than that. She's very lucky to have someone like you who cares so much about her. Hang in there ...
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Nov 09, 2007, 02:19 AM
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((((nowheretoturn)))) so terribly sorry about the situation.
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Nov 09, 2007, 07:07 AM
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I am so sorry that this happened. I can understand all the feelings you are having. From this type of incident the range of emotions is so great and so intense. Please give yourself understanding too. ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((nowheretorun & cousin))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Nov 09, 2007, 07:40 PM
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thanks to everyone who responded and thanks to BB for changing the thread icon...
today was a better day for me... i still haven't been able to contact my little cousin... i just imagine her there, away from home, strange people everywhere telling her what to do and when to do it.. wanting to go home... not understanding... wanting to love her... |
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#20
Nov 10, 2007, 01:25 PM
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where is he? lemme at 'im... i hate you i hate you i hate you
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Nov 10, 2007, 01:40 PM
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(((((((((((((nowheretorun)))))))))))))
I can understand your anger and hurt and confusion. I just hope he gets his comeuppance, let him loose in prison, let him have 'an accident'. Take care of you, sending love and hugs sweetie, I have the little girl in my thoughts along with you. May she have peace and love in her life from now on...... Hugs, Jinny xxxxxx 
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#22
Nov 10, 2007, 01:46 PM
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letting you hold me....
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#23
Nov 10, 2007, 01:49 PM
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holding you tight sweetheart, here whenever you need to talk or vent ok?
love you baby, Jinny xoxoxoxoxoxo |
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#24
Nov 10, 2007, 03:14 PM
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ty jinny... i'm so aaaarrrrgggghhhhh!!!!! right now... i'm tired of being silent, i'm tired of watching it just go on and on and on... i'm tired of escaping, i'm tired of having to escape, i'm tired, tired, tired... i want to fight, i want them to stand up and face me... i want to slash and cut and burn and thrash them, everything they stand for...
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#25
Nov 10, 2007, 03:17 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((jinnyann))))))))))))))))))))
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