[mulan]

My personality issues might be everything but simple. It's not the time or place to explain them.
I am angry at my sister right now, it will go away soon, I will forget it... But it makes me angry and sad how she doesn't listen to me, appreciates what I do, or tries to understand my point of view... And how aggressive she can be. Talking over me.
I always lost the fights with her, from my point of view, like what I think doesn't get credit and it is her opinion that prevails.
When I was a child I used aggression to express this type of anger, now it becomes so loud I no longer listen...but I have to let it out.
She won so I must be the guilty one.

[Wild Coyote]

Originally Posted by mulan

My personality issues might be everything but simple. It's not the time or place to explain them.
I am angry at my sister right now, it will go away soon, I will forget it... But it makes me angry and sad how she doesn't listen to me, appreciates what I do, or tries to understand my point of view... And how aggressive she can be. Talking over me.
I always lost the fights with her, from my point of view, like what I think doesn't get credit and it is her opinion that prevails.
When I was a child I used aggression to express this type of anger, now it becomes so loud I no longer listen...but I have to let it out.
She won so I must be the guilty one.

It would be nice if more sisters were loving and much less competitive with siblings.
I am sorry you are going through this.


WC

[mulan]

Originally Posted by Wild Coyote

It would be nice if more sisters were loving and much less competitive with siblings.
I am sorry you are going through this.


WC

She is a good sister, but she parentifies me. And many times she acts authoritarian. I am the closest person she has so she doesn't mind being herself around me...being "aggressive" in a way she wouldn't be with anyone else.
I feel like her pet sometimes...I have to pat her back everytime she is sad, be quiet anytime she wants, do what she needs me to.

She does things for me to and probably I would be miserable without het, but I am the weakest one of the relationships.

[katydid777]

Me and my big sis have this problem, but it is mostly when she drinks.

[Fuzzybear]