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#1
Jul 21, 2018, 10:03 AM
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This wasn’t yesterday or even last week.
To me this is bullying though. I’m sensitive and not ashamed of that, I like sensitive people  The landlord - slumlord of a dump of a room I was renting miles from nowhere when I was 20 said my singing sounded like a crow. And a “friend” passed this on to me.  Actually I can sing in tune. Damn it Mean insensitive people bore the crap out of me (And yes I have “moved” on but occasionally some of the jerks intrude into my fuzzy mind...) This is just a rant. Hugs to all 
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 Anonymous44144, Humpty Dumpty, little turtle, mote.of.soul, mountainstream, MtnTime2896, Purple,Violet,Blue, Rohag, ShadowGX
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#2
Jul 21, 2018, 11:25 AM
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Alienation from “daughter” ...
I don’t even know what that word means   No replies needed
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| Anonymous44144, mote.of.soul, MtnTime2896
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#3
Jul 21, 2018, 12:29 PM
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, mote.of.soul
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#4
Jul 21, 2018, 01:00 PM
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Life can be tough, yes... but why cannot we be?
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, mote.of.soul
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#5
Jul 21, 2018, 01:28 PM
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being tough has not worked for me... now I am working on just speaking up when I am blamed...with my wife... |
| Anonymous40127, Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, mote.of.soul
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#6
Jul 21, 2018, 01:44 PM
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That hasn’t worked for me, Being tough doesn’t usually or necessarily equate to being “strong” But yes I can be tough. With the worst “offenders” I wouldn’t usually be “tough” with “family” - not intentionally anyway So I suppose it was easy for them to hurt me. If they think they are better than me.. they do EFF them I prefer speaking up.. but with thought and kindness if at all possible. Love to all here
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| Anonymous44144, little turtle, mote.of.soul, MtnTime2896, Purple,Violet,Blue
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#7
Jul 21, 2018, 01:48 PM
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They do blame us, don’t they But they think we are the offenders, or that there is something “wrong” with us I wish I’d known this at the age of ... 5 How ridiculous, what young child would know that, with little to no emotional “support”
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| Anonymous44144, little turtle, MtnTime2896
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| little turtle
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#8
Jul 21, 2018, 02:33 PM
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I need to focus on my relation with my wife and kids...
I am living with my wife and we are very old...things can get tough.. I am paying most attention to how I AM BEHAVING...not to hurt my wife.. but this going to work both ways... I watch also that I be respected... |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, mote.of.soul, MtnTime2896
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Jul 21, 2018, 02:58 PM
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And absolutely, you and I, and everyone is also to be respected. Good words little turtle
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| Anonymous44144, mote.of.soul, MtnTime2896
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#10
Jul 22, 2018, 01:05 AM
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Fuzzy you can sing to us anytime. It would be a pleasure to listen to you.
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It's only paranoia until it happens. Why I don't trust doctors Things You Wish People Understood About Depression I mean what I say & I say what I mean. |
| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear, mote.of.soul
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#11
Jul 22, 2018, 08:58 AM
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I meant "tough" as in enduring... not necessarily rough. Now I know my parents cannot keep me bound to home all my life, I just need patience. And practice. Lots of it. Then I'll live an overall normal life.
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| Anonymous44144, Fuzzybear
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#12
Jul 22, 2018, 09:48 AM
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“Tough” as in enduring. Yes, I would say that most in the forum have that endurance. (Including little turtle and me)
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| Anonymous40127, Anonymous44144
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#13
Jul 22, 2018, 09:51 AM
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And as far as parents, parental units etc... If there is no care, empathy, concern, loyalty...then they are lacking all the attributes that would make them parents.
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| Anonymous40127, Anonymous44144
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