[Fuzzybear]

I’m pulling the plug on all the sub optimal thoughts, memories, worries etc.... so I can move forward. But I know they will be back

I’m really tired of this . Hugs to all who can relate, even somewhat

[unaluna]

It helps if the people who populate the memories are dead, ime. So no NEW conflicts or hassles. But even so, they still haunt my dreams.

And they say the best way to break an old habit is to replace it with a new one. My mother died 3 years ago, and last night i was like, really? Its taking me THREE YEARS to even start to feel free? To dig out from under? Oh well.

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by unaluna

It helps if the people who populate the memories are dead, ime. So no NEW conflicts or hassles. But even so, they still haunt my dreams.

And they say the best way to break an old habit is to replace it with a new one. My mother died 3 years ago, and last night i was like, really? Its taking me THREE YEARS to even start to feel free? To dig out from under? Oh well.

Thanks unaluna, I know what you mean

“They still haunt my dreams” - even if some of them aren’t around.

I’ve learned to let go of quite a bit of baggage but I still hold onto the feelings of inadequacy. Time to pull the plug on that stuff too.

[mote.of.soul]

Can definitely relate - a lot, Fuzzy. Hugs back to you!

[ShadowGX]

Cut the cord up so the thoughts can never be plugged in again. >:3

[downandlonely]

Good luck with that Fuzzy.

[unaluna]

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

Thanks unaluna, I know what you mean

“They still haunt my dreams” - even if some of them aren’t around.

Omg, last night part of my dream was, i was at my mothers, but she had renovated her kitchen AGAIN since my PREVIOUS dream renovation, at her new live in lesbian lover's command pretty much. And it wasnt a very nice renovation! It was awful and small and cheap looking. As was her gf!

When i say she haunts my dreams, I MEAN IT!!

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by downandlonely

Good luck with that Fuzzy.

Yeah.. I’m not optimistic. They do ..... grrrr. Why do they always have to share their Opinions ....

Opinion does NOT equal TRUTH

And usually I don’t need “educating” I have a degree DUDE

But sometimes I can still be naive and fall into some of the traps they set me

Not about anyone here

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by unaluna

Omg, last night part of my dream was, i was at my mothers, but she had renovated her kitchen AGAIN since my PREVIOUS dream renovation, at her new live in lesbian lover's command pretty much. And it wasnt a very nice renovation! It was awful and small and cheap looking. As was her gf!

When i say she haunts my dreams, I MEAN IT!!

Grrrrrrrr at maternal units

And grrrrrrr if people find it impossible to “get” it that there’s a difference between parents and parental units

Personally, I find the worst possible way to (even attempt to) “move on” is to be silent they will still hurt us anyway, in our dreams, in our bodies... allergic rashes etc

That kitchen grrrrrrrrrrrrr

I have “issues” about kitchens

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by ShadowGX

Cut the cord up so the thoughts can never be plugged in again. >:3

In theory that could be easy, with my teeth ...

[ShadowGX]

Just another reason to sharpen them!