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Old Jul 31, 2018, 08:26 AM
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My parental units kept telling me how I’m a “horrible person”

They loved to repeat to me that “any normal person” would .. something. I don’t know, I wasn’t THEM so I wasn’t “good enough” for them

And the paternal unit and step maternal said I “ruined” the maternal units life

Maybe I need to go to jail? Because my parents didn’t love me..

I have “moved on” and have found a different place.

But today I’m “not in a good place”

QUESTION - is Fuzzybear suppose to be perfect?
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Old Jul 31, 2018, 08:27 AM
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Old Jul 31, 2018, 09:02 AM
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Fuzzy you're parental units sound like bullies.

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Old Jul 31, 2018, 09:07 AM
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Fuzzy you're parental units sound like bullies.

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Thank you Thirty shades. Much love to you
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Old Jul 31, 2018, 09:08 AM
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Old Jul 31, 2018, 09:10 AM
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Old Jul 31, 2018, 11:47 AM
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Hi Fuzzybear. I'm so sorry your parental units said all those belittling and hurtful things to such a lovely young cub as was yourself. So sorry Fuzzy. Those fools have no idea, I'm sorry to say.
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QUESTION - is Fuzzybear suppose to be perfect?
In my view, a Fuzzybear is not meant to be perfect at all. If the Fuzzybear has a good heart and a caring spirit, then, to me, that's all that matters.
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Old Jul 31, 2018, 01:24 PM
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Some people just biologically have children and that’s about it. What these people say holds no credence in my opinion.
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Old Jul 31, 2018, 01:26 PM
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We love our Fuzzy, you don't deserve any of what they said to you
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Old Jul 31, 2018, 04:20 PM
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I don't believe "perfect" exists and it's wrong to expect anything or anyone to be perfect.

But you know what? You're the best damn bear in the forest and I'm happy to know you (even if it's just online).

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Old Jul 31, 2018, 08:11 PM
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Ditto. You are perfectly special.
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Old Jul 31, 2018, 08:53 PM
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No law forbids Fuzzybear from being herself.

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Old Aug 01, 2018, 10:15 AM
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No law forbids Fuzzybear from being herself.

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Old Aug 01, 2018, 12:22 PM
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No law forbids Fuzzybear from being herself.

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I love your post. Many thanks for posting. We all have a right to be accepted for who we are.
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Old Aug 01, 2018, 01:14 PM
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I love your post. Many thanks for posting. We all have a right to be accepted for who we are.
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Old Aug 01, 2018, 01:30 PM
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No parent should say things like that!

You look perfect to me, dearest Bear.
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Old Aug 01, 2018, 01:33 PM
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No parent should say things like that!

You look perfect to me, dearest Bear.
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Old Aug 01, 2018, 02:30 PM
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Fuzzy this song's for you:


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Old Aug 02, 2018, 08:39 AM
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