Hmmm why ....

So many different ways of beating self up.

So many different ways of calling self a “failure”

Maybe if people knew what some of the “professionals” said they wouldn’t echo those thoughts

I could have been a psychologist. Yes, one of Those People.

I explained why I am not in another thread, it takes too much effort to put myself out there (and be ignored or judged... that’s my “paranoia” - not about anyone here...)

It takes a lot of energy to beat self up.

It would be nice to occasionally be kind to self

“I’m sorry that happened to you”



That is the extent of the empathy they offer in this forest.

I’ve been trying to help too many people today.

I can understand why some psychologists get burnt out



I don’t think I would want to be a psychologist after all.

Special delivery for Fuzzy Bear, The Forest:

Yes, Fuzzy, that's right. And being kind to oneself is one of the main secrets to self healing, I believe.

But, of course, when it comes to essentially trying to make ones mind become a different mind, a less tormented mind, well, it's easier said than done, I can relate. Keep trying and trying good Fuzzy, because after years of battling my own maladaptions [and even the odd conniption], my mind eventually got tired and settled down a bit, became a bit docile if you will - and that's what I wanted. I stopped fighting my self. The outside world doesn't want to change but the inner world can. I do struggle with life but it's not like before, at all. I just wanted to share my thoughts with you because we never want a (((Fuzzybear))) to lose hope.

Thank you for this thread Fuzzy

You have reminded me this morning,to show myself some compassion, love and kindness.

Love and kindness to you Fuzzy

Much love to everyone's favouritest Fuzzybear

much love to all