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Default Sep 29, 2018 at 10:03 AM
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How do you spot a Narcissist.. you know, those who intend to harm us

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How do you spot a Narcissist.. you know, those who intend to harm us
They are often a bit to nice and are focused on their own interests, wants and needs.
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I worry about people who blame/shame/judge/criticize/take down...
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I also don't like people who are doing the 7 deadly habits...not on the bus
but in my home life..
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on the bus we help not hurt...
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I also don't like people who are doing the 7 deadly habits...not on the bus
but in my home life..
What are those 7 deadly habits little turtle?
(I think you said before.. I don’t remember all of them though )

I like it that everyone on this bus is on a journey, everyone is open to growing and changing


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I worry about people who blame/shame/judge/criticize/take down...
I worry about people who do these things too

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on the bus we help not hurt...

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The words we use are so important. I think little turtle and Rohag are the drivers of this bus.. and others too ..

This bus is too big for one fuzzy bear (perfectly imperfect ) to drive

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To all the abusers out there.. yes we all know abusers are everywhere

JUST STOP

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To all the abusers out there.. yes we all know abusers are everywhere

JUST STOP

fuzzy I don't see my abusers stopping..
I am trying to learn ways of defending myself...
without getting so angry..
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fuzzy I don't see my abusers stopping..
I am trying to learn ways of defending myself...
without getting so angry..
Yeah they won’t stop will they. And half the time they tell us we’re the abusers

They enjoy feeding on our pain and anger. What sort of sick “person” is that

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Abusers are cowards.

I wish I could eat them all. They might wish they had tried to stop their pathetic abuse. How ****kng sad.

Love doesn’t always help, does it.

Get behind me you horned piece of ****

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I think they have problems that they are trying to drop on us..
we are their punching bag..
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my friend who died recently kept saying [don't matter]...
I kept saying it does matter...certain things do matter....he died...
they do count...and for us to get feeling better certain things do matter...
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my friend who died recently kept saying [don't matter]...
I kept saying it does matter...certain things do matter....he died...
they do count...and for us to get feeling better certain things do matter...
Certain things do matter..

And some of those things are very scary to speak of

And some of those things we are not “allowed” to speak of...

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How do we get to feel better on this planet (with no meds)

And even if we can take meds, who wants to think of those horrible horrible things they can cause “down the road”

I don’t want that “down the road” the quacks love to speak of, damn it.

DO NO HARM

And with the haters in the world. There will always be those

How many of us are waiting.. waiting.. not wanting to be here.

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