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Old Sep 29, 2018, 12:55 PM
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I also don't like people who are doing the 7 deadly habits...not on the bus
but in my home life..
What are those 7 deadly habits little turtle?
(I think you said before.. I don’t remember all of them though )

I like it that everyone on this bus is on a journey, everyone is open to growing and changing

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Old Sep 29, 2018, 12:56 PM
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I worry about people who blame/shame/judge/criticize/take down...
I worry about people who do these things too
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 12:57 PM
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on the bus we help not hurt...
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 01:01 PM
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For reference: Dr. Glasser's "Habits" from the earlier Little Turtle thread
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 01:11 PM
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They are often a bit to nice and are focused on their own interests, wants and needs.
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 01:12 PM
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 01:49 PM
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The words we use are so important. I think little turtle and Rohag are the drivers of this bus.. and others too ..

This bus is too big for one fuzzy bear (perfectly imperfect ) to drive
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 01:55 PM
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To all the abusers out there.. yes we all know abusers are everywhere

JUST STOP
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 02:31 PM
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To all the abusers out there.. yes we all know abusers are everywhere

JUST STOP

fuzzy I don't see my abusers stopping..
I am trying to learn ways of defending myself...
without getting so angry..
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 02:53 PM
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fuzzy I don't see my abusers stopping..
I am trying to learn ways of defending myself...
without getting so angry..
Yeah they won’t stop will they. And half the time they tell us we’re the abusers

They enjoy feeding on our pain and anger. What sort of sick “person” is that
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 03:44 PM
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Abusers are cowards.

I wish I could eat them all. They might wish they had tried to stop their pathetic abuse. How ****kng sad.

Love doesn’t always help, does it.

Get behind me you horned piece of ****
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 04:49 PM
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I think they have problems that they are trying to drop on us..
we are their punching bag..
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Old Sep 29, 2018, 04:52 PM
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my friend who died recently kept saying [don't matter]...
I kept saying it does matter...certain things do matter....he died...
they do count...and for us to get feeling better certain things do matter...
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Old Sep 30, 2018, 03:37 PM
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my friend who died recently kept saying [don't matter]...
I kept saying it does matter...certain things do matter....he died...
they do count...and for us to get feeling better certain things do matter...
Certain things do matter..

And some of those things are very scary to speak of

And some of those things we are not “allowed” to speak of...
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Old Sep 30, 2018, 03:41 PM
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How do we get to feel better on this planet (with no meds)

And even if we can take meds, who wants to think of those horrible horrible things they can cause “down the road”

I don’t want that “down the road” the quacks love to speak of, damn it.

DO NO HARM

And with the haters in the world. There will always be those

How many of us are waiting.. waiting.. not wanting to be here.
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Old Sep 30, 2018, 03:50 PM
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What sort of fool throws away love? It’s the only answer in this sick sick world

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Old Sep 30, 2018, 05:23 PM
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What sort of fool throws away love? It’s the only answer in this sick sick world

I don't trust anybody with my heart....
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Old Oct 01, 2018, 08:53 AM
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I don't trust anybody with my heart....

I was ordered to talk less and use more drugs with my patients at the clinic-
I did not follow that order ever....

I fell in love with one of my patients...I left my private practice----
never to see her again...

I need a valium....
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Old Oct 01, 2018, 10:53 AM
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I was ordered to talk less and use more drugs with my patients at the clinic-
I did not follow that order ever....

I fell in love with one of my patients...I left my private practice----
never to see her again...

I need a valium....
((((( little turtle )))))

As I’m sure you know we can’t “choose” who we fall in love with. Unlike my PU, you did the “right” thing . I’m so sorry for your pain my friend
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Old Oct 01, 2018, 01:39 PM
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I was wondering about making a “confession” but it isn’t all that new... in fact I think I’ll skip it, it is about an abuser (in real life)

Get thee behind me *** hole
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Old Oct 01, 2018, 01:43 PM
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“Let’s all drink to the death of a clown”

This is playing.. not great lyrics.

But I wish the abusers in our heads would... kindly.... go away
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Old Oct 01, 2018, 01:44 PM
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(((((((( little turtle ))))))))

Btw it was “brave” of you to make that confession.. I’m proud of you fwiw
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Old Oct 01, 2018, 02:04 PM
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“You can always count on me”

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Old Oct 01, 2018, 03:37 PM
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thanks fuzzy very much....
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thanks fuzzy very much....
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