So very depressed

There is nothing that helps, and everything I try I fail at which just make it worse. No body cares about me. I'm just a failure in this world.

I can relate to you. I feel the same. Don't know what to say. But I send you lots of love and hugs Hope both of our situations improve soon.

We care about you

((((((( Ariesmars )))))))

You certainly haven't "failed" at being a person of great interest and many interests.
How many r/c flight hours do you have? It must number in the thousands.
How many things have you engineered from scratch or almost from scratch?

None of that, however, makes a dent in your feelings of failure.
A "failure?" No. I can't see you as a "failure."

If ariesmars is a “failure” then what am I ...

“Failure” is relative. I haven’t ever perceived you as a “failure” either. ((((( hugs )))))

Also some of the “failures” in this world are some of the kindest people. They don’t go around intentionally hurting others like some so called “successful” people do.

((((((( hugs ))))))

I care about you very much and in my eyes you're anything but a failure. There are so many things that you succeed at and most important of all you succeed at being a friend.

Hi @ariesmars,

I have been depressed and I know very well how much it hurts.

I have been suicidal.

Depression is when we get stuck with our psychological growth.

It doesn’t mean that you are a weak person or a failure.

I use to say that, in this crazy modern society, we, the depressed and ex-depressed people, are the only ones sane. :-)

A lot of hugs to you, I feel your suffering, come here every time you feel you need some hugs.

You deserve love as well, Fuzzy Everyone here does

(((((fuzzy)))))

Thank you, I thought I was being ignored (again) .. to be honest I’ve received too much unwanted “attention” not from anyone here

I do not understand mean people

Horrible fuzzy paws absolutely sucks. The PUS did the “right” thing abandoning me. I should thank them for showing me the “truth” that I’m worth nothing. And that I don’t exist

You are imp fuzzy. The PUs were wrong. You matter, your existence matters. I am glad that I have you as my friend. I m sure several others over here feel the same.

Thanks very much Fuzzybear. I guess I'm not a failure and neither are you! After therapy yesterday, she told me that because we are still here and living and fighting and haven't given up means "we" are the successful ones. But that is little comfort, when "we" struggle so much in this world.

It is true about being a "failure" but the fight of living is difficult and that makes me, among others, feel so insignificant that "we" think we are failures.

Aww...my friend! How I miss you and your color posts you were once able to do. Thank you very much, at least you are still around and I'm happy for that.

I agree about those who are depressed and ex-depressed are the only sane ones. Those who think they are sane tend to be the ones that are insane. I can't say that the statement is ALWAYS true though.

I don't ignore my friends!

Good post Ariesmars. Thank you for being my friend

((((ariesmars))))

You’re a true friend

((((ariesmars)))) I hope you feel better soon.

Thanks for all the replies and support. Still not feeling all that good.

You lived a psychological earthquake. It takes time to rebuild, brick after brick. Sometimes someone or something crashes the bricks down and you have to restart from scratch.

You need to be patient and kind to yourself. You are an earthquake survivor.

I'm sending you a brick you can use to rebuild.

It's a hug:



Good rebuilding.