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Old Oct 09, 2018, 10:11 AM
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I think maybe this is a price I pay for being well known here

I appreciate all the supportive people here

“But” if, very rarely, I post in “crisis” - and I’m not talking about threatening su..

It seems that too often some smart *** wants to tell me off. Or tell me that my thinking is “wrong”

More than one sub optimal smart *** t irl told me my thinking was “wrong” when in fact it wasn’t



This happens elsewhere as well. (Irl mostly) I’ve read of others who have also experienced this.

It’s sad if anyone feels they can’t reach out and share their pain, as this is supposed to help with healing, or at least with “carrying on”

As so many say, su is “bad” - so more judgments there.

Maybe I should just keep to myself
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Old Oct 09, 2018, 10:18 AM
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I love to hear your growl Fuzzy.

You are a wonderful bear and have every right to be yourself.
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Old Oct 09, 2018, 10:21 AM
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I'm glad you're here to share your experience, Fuzzy
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Old Oct 09, 2018, 10:22 AM
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I love to hear your growl Fuzzy.

You are a wonderful bear and have every right to be yourself.
Thank you Thirty shades
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Old Oct 09, 2018, 10:23 AM
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Old Oct 09, 2018, 10:42 AM
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fuzzy you have some AS IS friends here...
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Old Oct 09, 2018, 10:52 AM
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fuzzy you have some AS IS friends here...
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Old Oct 09, 2018, 10:57 AM
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Su isn't bad. It can be tragic for those left behind, but those left behind aren't the ones who were in all that agony. I'm also not saying it's good. It just is.

You shouldn't have to be silent because some people are dicks. Shutting someone who's in pain down, that's the worst thing a person can do, to anyone especially a bear like yourself.

Keep talking Fuzzy, I'll hear you out. PM me whenever. You're worth it.
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Old Oct 09, 2018, 11:03 AM
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Keep talking Fuzzy...

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Old Oct 09, 2018, 11:05 AM
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Su isn't bad. It can be tragic for those left behind, but those left behind aren't the ones who were in all that agony. I'm also not saying it's good. It just is.

You shouldn't have to be silent because some people are dicks. Shutting someone who's in pain down, that's the worst thing a person can do, to anyone especially a bear like yourself.

Keep talking Fuzzy, I'll hear you out. PM me whenever. You're worth it.
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Old Oct 09, 2018, 11:07 AM
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Old Oct 09, 2018, 11:46 AM
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It's YOU we love, Fuzzy!
Keep on being YOU!

We can try to ignore anyone who is unsupportive, if possible.
The heck with them!

YOU matter!
We love YOU just as you are!

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Old Oct 09, 2018, 11:55 AM
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It's YOU we love, Fuzzy!
Keep on being YOU!

We can try to ignore anyone who is unsupportive, if possible.
The heck with them!

YOU matter!
We love YOU just as you are!

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Old Feb 23, 2022, 06:03 PM
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Big (((hugs))) fuzzy.... we should all be able to say how we really feel here. No one has the right to deny us our true feelings or to tell us we are wrong. How do they know? They don't live our lives. They don't have our experiences.

No one should feel like they have to hide themselves away, especially on here. You are among friends, and friends just accept, they don't judge.

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Old Feb 24, 2022, 10:29 PM
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I think maybe this is a price I pay for being well known here :(

I appreciate all the supportive people here :)

“But” if, very rarely, I post in “crisis” - and I’m not talking about threatening su..

It seems that too often some smart *** wants to tell me off. Or tell me that my thinking is “wrong”

More than one sub optimal smart *** t irl told me my thinking was “wrong” when in fact it wasn’t :( :confused::( :rain3:

:mad:

This happens elsewhere as well. (Irl mostly) I’ve read of others who have also experienced this.

It’s sad if anyone feels they can’t reach out and share their pain, as this is supposed to help with healing, or at least with “carrying on” :(

As so many say, su is “bad” - so more judgments there.

Maybe I should just keep to myself :thud:
People in real life as well as Online has done this too me as well. It hard not to take the comments personally.
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Old Mar 28, 2022, 06:01 PM
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Big (((hugs))) fuzzy.... we should all be able to say how we really feel here. No one has the right to deny us our true feelings or to tell us we are wrong. How do they know? They don't live our lives. They don't have our experiences.

No one should feel like they have to hide themselves away, especially on here. You are among friends, and friends just accept, they don't judge.

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Thanks East17, I agree. Good post.
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