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Jan 17, 2019, 11:24 AM
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I don’t like being forced to do something/go somewhere that causes me anguish.
I’m a pos and can’t even adult.  
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Jan 17, 2019, 11:45 AM
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no one can force anyone to do anything ((((hugs)))))) who is forcing you |
| Fuzzybear, MickeyCheeky, Thirty shades
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Jan 17, 2019, 01:50 PM
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I've pretty-much drawn a line in the sand, so to speak, on this. I spent the majority of my life doing things that caused me anguish.
 No more....  
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"I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last) |
| AzulOscuro, Fuzzybear, MickeyCheeky, Thirty shades
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#4
Jan 17, 2019, 02:10 PM
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You are wonderful, Fuzzy
 I do wish you could see for yourself that you're lovely and ignore the haters 
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Jan 17, 2019, 02:12 PM
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Don't let anyone tell you what you have to do, Fuzzybear! You have the right love your own life. I'm sorry this is happening to you. Be strong. Remember that we all love you here. Sending many hugs to you
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| Fuzzybear, Thirty shades
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#6
Jan 17, 2019, 02:35 PM
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We have the ultimate decision. Unless they truly decide to harm us in a way that incapacitates us, we retain that ability no matter how much pressure they put on us to do otherwise. For me, if someone puts too much pressure to change a decision I have no intention of changing, I simply end the conversation. First I tell them, "I am ending this conversation now because I am getting upset that you seem to not be hearing me or are ignoring me. (And if it is a discussion about a subject rather than doing or going some place, I add: Maybe we can continue this later if you are also willing to listen to me - but right now, I'm ending it." If they argue me ending the conversation or argue that statement, I say, "ok, I'm done now. Have a great day (or night)" and either walk away, hang up the phone (and ignore any call backs from them til I am ready to talk), or minimize chat screen and ignore any notifications of new messages (depending on the situation) It's hard to do at first, and you feel as if you are being mean - but after a bit, you realize it keeps you more calm and focused. When you are stable and not unhealthy, you can be the friend everyone needs and wants and the person you want to be and it makes it easier to lovd yourself (which is most important). *hugs*
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Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away |
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Jan 17, 2019, 02:40 PM
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You're a bear in your own right Fuzzy....
Being assertive allows us to say "no" gracefully... Much love 
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Jan 18, 2019, 01:41 PM
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
| Fuzzybear, MickeyCheeky, mote.of.soul, Thirty shades
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