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#51
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#52
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![]() I wish she would be quiet for a bit But I can’t force her to be silent, that would be “abuse” ![]() Much love ![]()
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My snake has become quiet ever since I reminded him about my aim.
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#54
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![]() Does she carry a message to you with any truth? My snake sometimes tells the truth in a cruel way. Other times she spouts lies. ![]() ![]() Much love to you dear bear ![]() |
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#55
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![]() Other times she spouts lies from the unconscious brain or other mean words etc... ![]() ![]() Much love to you dear friend ![]()
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#56
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I send love to our inner snakes. I respect those who do not silence or deny their snakes. Sometimes I think they carry an important message.
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![]() 3rd rock, Anonymous40127, Fuzzybear, Serpentine Leaf, Thirty shades
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#58
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Grrrrrrrrrrr
![]() ![]() So many triggering words... So many judgments ![]() ![]()
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If only we had a muzzle for our snakes....
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![]() 3rd rock, mote.of.soul, Serpentine Leaf, Thirty shades
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Yes, my inner snake is always twisting, turning, looking this way then that. Seeking a victim! But you're right (((Fuzzy))). Only love can mellow the heart of even the most poisonous snake, I believe. But it sure does sap my vital energy away...*sigh*
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![]() 3rd rock, Fuzzybear, Serpentine Leaf, Thirty shades
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#63
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What do you folks mean by your "inner snake?" Is this self-criticism?
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![]() Fuzzybear, mountainstream, Thirty shades
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#65
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Yes, SilverTrees. The inner critic, the inner snake[!] Our OP, Thirty shades, has given us a description in the opening post.
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#66
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Silencing Your Inner Critic | Psychology Today That said, if some folks find the notion of an inner snake helpful for your healing, fair play to you. Perhaps you think of healing as learning to tame or train the snake?? |
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#67
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There’s something I can’t say here. ![]() |
![]() 3rd rock, Fuzzybear, mote.of.soul, Serpentine Leaf, Thirty shades
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#68
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Yes. To perhaps love the snake so s/he may in turn grow to love us back - loosen his grip :-) Or at least that's what I believe it to be. Thanks for the link to the article as well, I'll have a 'peruse' at some stage soon, thanks. |
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I think the idea is not to actually “silence” the “snake”...
It may be part of us... AS IS I think everyone is very individual.. which is why I think bog standard CBT isn’t a “miracle cure” ![]() ![]()
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I cannot tolerate medication due to extreme allergies. This does not make me happy.
![]() ![]() Some would not even be ‘alive’ at this point...
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Much love to you dear Thirty shades. ![]()
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#74
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![]() Peace and love to all who are trying to love their inner snake. ![]() |
![]() 3rd rock, Fuzzybear, mote.of.soul, Serpentine Leaf, Thirty shades
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