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Hello PC friends,
recently I experienced something traumatic. I am not comfortable sharing the details publicly. This experience involved a great deal of loss, fear, violation of privacy, and stress. For a while, I felt numb or entirely empty. Now I have this odd feeling that I am not living within my body. I realize how strange that sounds. It is not easy to convey. Best I can explain is that my mind or spirit or soul (whatever you call that which propels us from one day or moment to the next) has left my body. It's there somewhere. Watching what happens from a short distance. It's bizarre and disconcerting...more than that...the feeling frightens me...like my own Self has walked away from me. What's my point? If you have an e-hug or a supportive thought to share, I would welcome that. I feel scared and very much alone. I reached out to two non-PC friends who really let me down in this crisis. My family is far, far away. Thank you for reading. I send all of you peace and positive energy. Last edited by Anonymous57363; Feb 10, 2019 at 12:34 AM. |
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Couldn’t it be what it’s called despersonalization disorder? Have you got any posibility to visit a doctor soon or call emergency?
From what I have just read, it could be a phase that is gonna pass, it doesn’t have to be frequent and be a disorder but only a symptom. I guess it must be a madness. How are you feeling now?
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I'm so sorry, HopefullyLost1211
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I’m sorry HopefullyLost1211
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I’m so sorry you had a traumatic experience. Do you think the stress and anxiety from the trauma could be causing your current condition? You aren’t alone. You have us here on PC to comfort and support you as you work through this. Sending many hugs and supportive vibes.
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"I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last) |
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So very sorry you’ve had this horrific experience, Hopefully. It does sound to me like a reaction to the trauma, especially if the trauma involved your physical body. Also sounds as if the shock response may be starting to give way.
Are you able to function? Feel your body? Pour a glass of water, that kind of thing? |
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I hope I didn't mislead anyone. I am not entirely alone since I do have my S.O. And he's a good man but one human can only do so much, right? He has his stress too and I don't want to be a burden. Support from friends or family would be nice but nobody has stepped up (my family has sent kind messages but they are physically far away) so we will accept our reality. When I posted last night, my S.O. was away all night and I was alone with intense feelings which had not hit me yet. Your comment about the shock response starting to give way sounds very accurate. That's alarming me because I'm not ready to deal with another major trauma. I've had other traumas in the past. I just do my best and try to focus on gratitude and coping step by step. In small increments. However, as of yesterday, I feel I need trauma counseling. I had to run an errand and I cried the whole way as I walked home and my hands were shaking. I couldn't stop. I don't think anyone saw me...I hope!!! ![]() Thank you for writing! ![]() |
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Do you have a counselor? A therapist? And if not, it seems to me I’ve seen something at the top of this forum that says “Do you need to talk to a counselor right now?” Maybe you could give that a try if there are no other options.
I’ll share with you that I have had a few out-of-body experiences myself, some frightening, some not so much, so if that or anything else I can do might feel helpful feel free to PM me. |
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virtual hugs for you today
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Another thing someone told me once when i was going thru one of these things was to put my hand over my solar plexus and hold it there for awile. There was something reassuring about that.
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I am going to try that. Forgive the obtuse Q...I have heard of the solar plexus but don't exactly know where it is...could you explain?
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The solar plexus is the area right below the center of your breasts but an inch or two above your navel. You should feel a slight indentation there.
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I’m glad you felt a little better.
It must be a horrible sensation. It sounds like the stress in the present, untied demonds from the past. I used to have extracorporeal experiences when I was sleeping and I was living a period of lots of stress and pressure and it already was very scary. I’m not comparing. That’s why I said that living it when you are awake must be absolutely confused and scary. Try to talk to a therapist or psychiatrist to see up to what point it can be slowered the effects, with different techniques.
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This happened to me due to a traumatic experience as a teenager, I saw it as a form of dissociation and with hindsight, it was a defence mechanism.
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I have experienced feeling unreal at times of extreme anxiety. I believe it is a human response to have.
It feels awful, I know, I find some space and try to remember it will pass. Feeling 'Unreal' - Anxiety Care UK Big hug and much love ![]() |
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THANK YOU so much to everyone here for reading and sharing and inspiring! I try to reply to each poster one by one but sometimes I am slow. I am not sleeping well lately so I wake up feeling fractured and distracted.
There are some really valuable insights and strategies from you folks here. Plus your empathy means more to me than I can convey in words. I hope this message finds you all well. If not, I hope you can find the resources and support you need. Please know that I am wishing each of you peace, positive energy, and hope. Take good care of yourselves. This may sound silly but I found this in a fortune cookie a while ago and I kept it and during times of crisis I read it to myself: The stars appear every night in the sky. All is well. I find that when life is perplexing and painful, looking to nature can be very powerful and comforting. |
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Take good care of yourself, HopefullyLost1211
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Hopefully, I think it is very gracious of you to try to reply to each member's post. It shows how conscientious you are. However, when you're going through a crisis as you are right now, personally I think you need to concentrate on yourself and trying to deal with what you're experiencing, with the faith that anyone who responds to you is trying to help you deal with that.
I've made a number of posts that have generated no replies, and while it's always gratifying to have your efforts recognized, that isn't the main reason, I don't think, for posting. It's to try to come up with something that might possibly help the suffering person. Please don't worry about the necessity to reply, at least on my account. ![]() ![]() |
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