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Old Feb 23, 2019, 05:15 PM
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I feel bad. I feel sad and angry. I should not speak.
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Old Feb 23, 2019, 06:10 PM
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I think your “inner snake” is wrong.

“Should” ...
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Old Feb 23, 2019, 06:40 PM
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Emotions of pain and suffering...

You are not alone
I am facing the shame from speaking out the truth yesterday..
Voicing my emotion was wrong
Too late now
It was too strong
My inner snake spat it out
Without asking me...

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Old Feb 23, 2019, 07:05 PM
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((((mountainstream))))

Emotions of pain and suffering...

You are not alone
I am facing the shame from speaking out the truth yesterday..
Voicing my emotion was wrong
Too late now
It was too strong
My inner snake spat it out
Without asking me...

Much love to you


I’m not sure that voicing emotions is wrong

I’m sorry your inner snake didn’t ask you

Much Love to all
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Old Feb 24, 2019, 03:54 AM
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We can't win with what we speak.......

The truth is hard for others to hear...
Lies are not worth spouting...

How are you? Why should I lie and say fine thanks... Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

People don't want the truth.... IRL not posters here....

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Old Feb 24, 2019, 09:03 AM
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I should not speak.
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Voicing my emotion was wrong
Voicing emotion "wrong"...?

Sometimes voicing emotion is uncontrollable, sometimes inconvenient, sometimes socially awkward or embarrassing. Sometimes it is socially damaging.
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My inner snake spat it out
Without asking me...
Similar happens to me. Daily. I am blessed in that those who live closest to me are "used" to my odd and often scary utterances.

Mountainstream, how and/or when did you "learn" you "should not speak"? (Please feel free to ignore the question. )
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Old Feb 24, 2019, 11:20 AM
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[QUOTE=Rohag;6448546]Voicing emotion "wrong"...?

Sometimes voicing emotion is uncontrollable, sometimes inconvenient, sometimes socially awkward or embarrassing. Sometimes it is socially damaging.

Similar happens to me. Daily. I am blessed in that those who live closest to me are "used" to my odd and often scary utterances.

Mountainstream, how and/or when did you "learn" you "should not speak"? (Please feel free to ignore the question.

I was taught in early childhood I should not speak.

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Old Feb 24, 2019, 01:51 PM
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Voicing emotion "wrong"...?

Sometimes voicing emotion is uncontrollable, sometimes inconvenient, sometimes socially awkward or embarrassing. Sometimes it is socially damaging.

Similar happens to me. Daily. I am blessed in that those who live closest to me are "used" to my odd and often scary utterances.

Mountainstream, how and/or when did you "learn" you "should not speak"? (Please feel free to ignore the question.

I was taught in early childhood I should not speak.

Hugs to all.
My mother would regularly tell me "Children should be seen and not heard."

Arghhhhh Should again, Grrrrrrrrrrr

Being not heard..... Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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Old Feb 24, 2019, 01:57 PM
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I feel bad. I feel sad and angry. I should not speak.

That is why you have to SPEAK... do not keep it in you.. it will destroy you.. F.. them all...

Better spill it out than blow out and end up in mental hospital.. Speak... who does not want to hear F.. them... they are not worth of your presence ...
We are here.. We listen because we understand..
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Old Feb 24, 2019, 02:00 PM
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We can't win with what we speak.......

The truth is hard for others to hear...
Lies are not worth spouting...

How are you? Why should I lie and say fine thanks... Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

People don't want the truth.... IRL not posters here....

Much love to everyone

My friend had a wisdom when you ask her How are you? She will always reply Excellent even when her world is falling apart. Her wisdom was in this.. my true friends know how I am in any moment.. I am Excellent for my enemies and people who put their nose in other's business.

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