I find that...

I find that insight can come from “whining” - if someone is intelligent

But how to force “changes” is quite another issue..

I’ve never been a fan of being forced to “do things”

“Avpd” doesn’t come out of nowhere and it isn’t for “cowards” or “simply whiners”

I doubt if anyone fitted that “criteria” of being a “coward and a whiner” they would have survived as long as I have ...

I also used to have quite a “talent” at attracting abuse

My snake is angry today. Feel free to ignore her..

(Not angry with anyone here )

I am there for everyone around me and people are just not there for me. (irl) And It's not (only) my inner critic abandonment issues speaking. If people cared about me wouldnt ignore my worries and oppinions. So much selfish people caring only about their own lifes around. Who the hell says I suffered a lot I can do whatever I want?

I often find the same thing, I’m there for people (irl) and they aren’t there for me

People who care wouldn’t ignore our worries and opinions.. grrrrrrr. They are selfish

I’ve known some whose “suffering” ... grrrrrrrrrr..... they think it’s ok to treat people like dirt? No no no.