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Old Mar 15, 2019, 03:08 PM
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Papa bear said today that I play the piano like a “little angel”...

Why can’t I hold onto the kind words from true people...

More than the harsh and untrue words from abusive people with an intent to harm

I guess having parental units and the whole family of origin with what I consider to be almost zero empathy or appreciation for me doesn’t help... and not much kindness

But I am able to be kind to, appreciate and have empathy for people. For that I’m grateful

I’m also grateful to all those others who have those gifts
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Old Mar 15, 2019, 03:55 PM
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Old Mar 15, 2019, 04:12 PM
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Love papa bear , I love the piano wish I could play. Happy weekend love to you all group hug
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Old Mar 15, 2019, 04:28 PM
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Old Mar 15, 2019, 04:36 PM
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Didn't heard but totally believe you do play like an Angel.
Keep doing that reppeating those kind words to yourself. Messed up parent unities sucks.
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Old Mar 15, 2019, 05:09 PM
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I wish we could hear your angelic tunes Fuzzy....

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Old Mar 15, 2019, 05:25 PM
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Why can’t I hold onto the kind words from true people...
More than the harsh and untrue words from abusive people with an intent to harm
A key question. I fear knowing the answer or answers or hypotheses might not be enough to help.

Parental units and family of origin... Early socialisation... You are undoubtedly correct.

((((((( )))))))
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Old Mar 17, 2019, 06:24 PM
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My Fuzzy, I think we can all on this forum agree on this:

YOU ARE OUR ANGEL OF GOOD VIBES AND OVERSEES US!

A little angel
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Old Mar 17, 2019, 06:59 PM
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My Fuzzy, I think we can all on this forum agree on this:

YOU ARE OUR ANGEL OF GOOD VIBES AND OVERSEES US!

A little angel
Thank you to everyone

My “snake” has been messing with my head again today

Much love to all

I love Tatty Teddy, so cute
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