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Maslow speaks the truth

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Confessions of little turtle with love #3
Thanks Thirty shades for this wise post

And for all you share

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that maslow pyramid looks like good stuff....thanks for that...

I started reading my new book STARING AT THE SUN by the
psychiatrist Irvin yalom....overcoming the terror of death...
I don't think I will ever get there....my fear is too great....
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I am trying to be kind to myself this morning...
this is very hard today...but I am almost ready to
forgive myself for breaking down in 1973...
that was the big one...I could no longer practice
psychiatry....sounds strange...I have been blaming myself..
that is not right...and I blame psychiatry for its
awful ways....it happened...I still don't know why..
it doesn't matter now...my breakdown is ok...ok..
no fault breakdown...it is ok LT...as is...you are ok..
this stuff takes a lot of practice...it just doesn't
happen without focus on kindness and patience...
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Death of an idol

I agree, Little Turtle. Death can be such a cruel thing. I have a friend who looks like Eddie Redmayne, who stars as Stephen Hawking, in Dr.Hawking's biopic, The Theory of Everything. I sorta have feelings for him (forbidden, since I am a boy also) and I cannot stand the fact that time will eventually erase our relationship and we'll both grow old and die.

But hey... life was never supposed to be perfect. You would not want to suffer forever by living forever.

I miss my childhood as I will miss my youth in my 40's. That's why it's said you only get one shot. Me and him, will never be. I know. But I don't lose my sleep over it anymore. You can't change the Universe's laws, little turtle.
 
 
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I am trying to be kind to myself this morning...
this is very hard today...but I am almost ready to
forgive myself for breaking down in 1973...
that was the big one...I could no longer practice
psychiatry....sounds strange...I have been blaming myself..
that is not right...and I blame psychiatry for its
awful ways....it happened...I still don't know why..
it doesn't matter now...my breakdown is ok...ok..
no fault breakdown...it is ok LT...as is...you are ok..
this stuff takes a lot of practice...it just doesn't
happen without focus on kindness and patience...


Good luck with reaching your finishing post of forgiveness LT.

Self love AS IS...
It has given me some light at the end of my tunnel to work towards
I will travel kindly and patiently...
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I am trying to be kind to myself this morning...
this is very hard today...but I am almost ready to
forgive myself for breaking down in 1973...
that was the big one...I could no longer practice
psychiatry....sounds strange...I have been blaming myself..
that is not right...and I blame psychiatry for its
awful ways....it happened...I still don't know why..
it doesn't matter now...my breakdown is ok...ok..
no fault breakdown...it is ok LT...as is...you are ok..
this stuff takes a lot of practice...it just doesn't
happen without focus on kindness and patience...
(((((((((( little turtle ))))))))))

Much love and kindness to you AS IS

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Good luck with reaching your finishing post of forgiveness LT.

Self love AS IS...
It has given me some light at the end of my tunnel to work towards
I will travel kindly and patiently...
Good post Thirty shades, you’re very wise and kind

Much love to all AS IS

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thanks fuzzy....major problem with wife and me...turned out to be
a major problem that I have...I need to own it...I have so much GUILT
about breaking down and not working ....started in 1973...
lasted about 4 years...........I have been BLAMING myself
over and over...now I really NEED THE AS IS BUS and all my friends in it...
I have been so ASHAMED and that is not good at all...
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thanks fuzzy....major problem with wife and me...turned out to be
a major problem that I have...I need to own it...I have so much GUILT
about breaking down and not working ....started in 1973...
lasted about 4 years...........I have been BLAMING myself
over and over...now I really NEED THE AS IS BUS and all my friends in it...
I have been so ASHAMED and that is not good at all...
We are lucky to have you on the AS IS Bus LT

Our health is not our choosing
By accepting ourselves AS IS
We become stronger
The light is waiting for us
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Can't say about anyone else, but I've learnt an important lesson in my life.

Look, if you had one shot, one opportunity
To seize everything you ever wanted
One moment
Would you capture it or just let it slip?


You better lose yourself in the music, the moment
You own it, you better never let it go
You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow
This opportunity comes once in a lifetime
You better lose yourself in the music, the moment
You own it, you better never let it go
You only get one shot, do not miss your chance to blow
This opportunity comes once in a lifetime you better (... lose yourself)

If I had studied harder, ignored all my troubles, I could have been a better place. That does not mean I cannot do it now and get admission into one of the most reputed research institutes for my PhD. I'll try. It's everything I can do.

Also, I miss the good parts of my past. I don't feel lonely, but I still feel pain when I think where I'll be by three years from now, by the time I finish my BSc. My friends, they'll be scattered and hard to come in contact with. We'll forget and move on. It's so sad for me.
 
 
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Hugs to all ... love to all AS IS

Little turtle, do you have an inner young little turtle?

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Why is love so hard to comprehend for some?
It’s very sad
I’m grateful for all the wonderful people here on pc

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I’m grateful for little turtle and Rohag
And all on the as is bus
Who never judge
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Are always kind

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I am grateful you are on the bus Fuzzy

And I am grateful that all who travel are kind, patient and loving
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I am grateful you are on the bus Fuzzy

And I am grateful that all who travel are kind, patient and loving
I’m grateful you’re on the bus also Thirty Shades

Kindness, patience, loving kindness.. I’m grateful all who travel here have those qualities

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Little turtle, do you have an inner young little turtle?

fuzzy inside of me is a little baby turtle....
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we are depressed and anxious....how possible is it
to work towards health and happiness???????????????
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