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Old Jun 20, 2019, 05:10 PM
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Old Jun 20, 2019, 05:54 PM
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Old Jun 20, 2019, 06:30 PM
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Hi Thirty shades and all reading,
I liked your question and thought I would share my experience on this topic. I hope it helps!

Self love in its truest form is a thought. It is a idea that once we have it we will be happier in our own skin. I say it’s a thought because if you think about it, if you think and believe that you are worthy, special, and perfect the way you are, then it becomes true for you. But if you think you are not worthy, unspecial, and imperfect then that becomes true as well.
So the trick to manifesting tour own self love is to think you are self loving more then you are not!

Sounds simple, I know, but when you do get it,it will seem even simpler. It just takes a little work on each persons part to make it a reality. Things like self analysis ( looking at ones life and observing how the things they do affect them), affirmations ( repeatition of thoughts), meditation, mindfulness, or doing a activity that brings joy and passion to ones life repeatedly are all things that can help jumpstart the self love train!

I want to finish by saying I liked tour question because I feel self love is very important. It was one of the first thought, belief, and knowings I attained in my personal transformation. To me it is the glue that holds everything together in the good and the bad. No time is ever wasted on the pursuit of attaining this gift.

P.s. As for the people who bring you down out there. If someone gives you a gift, and you do not accept that gift, then who does the gift belong to?
Often people who say mean things are just transferring their own insecurities. Because let’s face it, in order for people to recognize and say something, they have to had been thinking about it first!

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Old Jun 20, 2019, 07:38 PM
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I know many of us struggle with loving ourselves.

Can anyone put forward any tips that they find helpful?

How do we be confident in ourselves as we are?
If you are struggling with self condifence, it maybe down to bad oral health. Go see an orthodontist that will be able to fix your malaclussion and receding jawline. They say that appearance don't matter are lying. Being self conscious is a GOOD thing.

Music helps during dark times.
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Old Jun 24, 2019, 02:17 AM
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Old Jun 24, 2019, 09:33 AM
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Old Jun 28, 2019, 08:18 AM
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I know many of us struggle with loving ourselves.

Can anyone put forward any tips that they find helpful?

How do we be confident in ourselves as we are?
I wish that I knew! I am working on this myself! I been watching Lisa A Romano self help video typing in How to love and mediation! I hope that this help!
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I struggle with this too

Thank you dear person for starting this thread

I appreciate you and all you share

Maybe self love might start with self respect.. I’m not sure..

And separation of “stuff” - the words of abusers or those who are misguided or misinformed about us don’t hold value..

We are valuable and loveable as is

With kindness and respect to you

And to all here
This is a great idea! I wish that I had thought about that myself! I agree with what you said.
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tough one....this is so important....thanks very much TS and fuzzy...
rohag usually has something good to say...
I agree!
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Old Oct 03, 2019, 08:13 AM
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I am struggling to love myself right now.

So how can I expect others to care?

I seem to abandon myself without a care...

I don't like coming into contact with the world but it somehow keeps pushing its way into my hole where I am trying to hide....

I need peace in my hole, so I can reconnect to me
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Old Oct 04, 2019, 05:05 PM
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Much love and respect to you dear friend, and to your inner snake and ….
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Old Jan 03, 2020, 04:55 PM
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Old Jan 03, 2020, 07:27 PM
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Wishing you so much peace and space in your safe hole, Thirty Shades.

You do so much to make others feel better. A bit of hush is all you ask in return. And it's really well-deserved!

I understand that feeling, when (at least, this is how it is for me) the world seems like a harsh mirror, which we are forced to look into.

Thinking of you.
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Old Jan 16, 2020, 06:02 PM
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Old Jan 16, 2020, 06:47 PM
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The self-love hedgehog! That's so cute. Hope you're doing OK, Thirty Shades.
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Old Jan 17, 2020, 02:59 AM
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Thank you dear Fuzzybear and Purple Violet Blue, I am trying to self love...

One step at a time.....

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