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Member Since Feb 2016
Location: Doing donuts in the parking lot
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#1
I've been trying to talk for a while. I've also told that to these boards a few times now. I've talked here plenty and have been mostly ignored, along with chat, and I don't even feel like saying that now matters. Here's what I think is going to happen: Those who actually read it will either be annoyed or will just ignore it all together because when it comes down to it, I whine too much. I'm a little *****.
Why have I whined so much on here? Well, people in my life will be a major aspect of my day when they get something out of it. I got a text from someone needing to talk, an old friend and someone I really care about, and I plan on trying to help if I can. A few weeks ago, I told the same friend I was having a hard time and I got the, "You'll be fine." And a few memes, then he just quit talking to me until now that he needs me. If this were an isolated incident, fine. But it's ****ing not. I'm falling apart and I'm ****ing lucky if someone answers a ******* text of just me saying "What's up?" The only two people who even care to talk to me on a daily basis can't discuss the things going on with me. And it's not like I didn't try, they're both just too ****ing stoned to hear me. And then, the other day, someone had the nerve to tell me, "You're being so quiet." ****. You. I've established that people care about your silence and then ignore you until you shut up, again. I've tried so hard to be there for people who wouldn't care if I was dying of thirst right in front of them. This post will do nothing and I've simply wasted time. It's whatever, I wouldn't talk to me either. __________________ "Give him his freedom and he'll remember his humanity." |
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#2
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Chat Moderator
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#3
__________________ "Give him his freedom and he'll remember his humanity." |
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#4
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#5
PS I’m often ignored too
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#6
I’m sending hugs.
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#7
I would miss you if you were not here Só leigheas.
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#8
Dear Só leigheas, your situation is so different from my own. I doubt my ability to comfort. I have absolutely no confidence in my ability to counsel. I am here as a fellow-sufferer and not as an aspiring lay therapist.
When you find a "hug" from me attached to a post of yours, it means I have actually read what you wrote and signal my attempt to compassionately notice you. ![]() Quote:
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#9
We used to talk a lot and haven't for a while. (More than a year, so bad). I am sorry about that. I have lost other IRL friends by not staying in touch. I have no close IRL friends other than my family. Sometimes I get way too distracted. I distract myself with drugs, music, work and I recently got obssessed about something that I can't let go of. Endless loop. So annoying. I have no time to go to my T until June but will discuss when I go.
Sure does sound like excuses. Sorry. I really do like you. I know how alone you are since your fiance broke up with you. Your complaints are valid. Forgive me. AND SORRY for dumping my stuff on you. You did just say--people told you about their problems but then don't listen to you. I will try to listen a little better. I will start checking for your posts in the early AM (when I tend to be here ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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#10
You ARE loved here, Sò leigheas!
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#12
I don't blame any of you and a lot of this was venting, and more so for rl than here.
Something else just set me off and triggered me really bad today. When I tried to talk about it, I was passed over and ignored, it was the final straw.
Possible trigger:
Possible trigger:
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#13
I should add that I reached out to someone and was able to talk about it. It helped some.
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#14
This means you need PC more than ever.
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Legendary
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#15
I'm REALLY HAPPY that you're feeling a little better, Só leigheas, and that someone was able to help you a little bit!
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Member Since Oct 2018
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#16
[I should add that I reached out to someone and was able to talk about it. It helped some.]
I'm so glad you found someone to listen, Só. I've been a member of the forum for about 6 months now, have read many of your posts, and have always had the impression that your burdens were pretty heavy. Many hugs to you (((( ![]() And by the way, it was solely to be able to respond accurately to your posts that I learned how to make an accent agué. How about that? ![]() |
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Nov 2015
Location: Tennessee
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#17
Só leigheas, I hope you know you can always reach out to me.
I am sorry to hear about your friend n can understand why that would bring up urges in you. It is good you have been able to talk to someone. Is that the only person you have for a support system in your offline life? You always have people here of course - and if I go off PC again, you can email me ❤. Please don't ever feel ignored. You are a very sweet n caring person I feel lucky to call "friend". I read each post I see of yours but if there is ever anything you just need a friend to speak to about - send me a PM or email. ❤ __________________ Life is not measured by the amount of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away |
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