[Fuzzybear]

......... softly spoken ........

(Not about anyone on pc)

Much love to all those who have been hurt or harmed by the cruel words and / or actions of others

Fwiw.... the random unpleasant memory that inspired this post was

“Fred and his clockwork girlfriend” - spoken by an ex fiancé.... the fuzzy bear of today would not even consider becoming engaged to someone who repeatedly disrespected innocent others with unkind words and judgments.,

Thanks also to Don Henley for his lyrics which I mangled and changed in the very short example

Papa bear didn’t recognise the short mangled excerpt .... he doesn’t listen to lyrics as much as I do, he mostly listens to the instrumentals more..

What a wonderful, diverse world full of wonderful things. And wonderful diverse people.

And much respect and care to all suffering

[Thirty shades]

The cruel words spoken

Thank you for speaking kind and loving words full of respect for all dear bear...

Much love to all who are caring and suffer

[Mopey]

Many people don't pay anywhere near enough attention to the words they use, IMHO. Then if you use the same words on them, they get all bent out of shape. OR, they allow as how you are "too sensitive". "Don't be so nervous!" "Don't be so SENSITIVE!"

I don't find this amusing, I find it destructive, and it makes me very, very angry.

Many hugs to you, sensitive Fuzzy Bear.

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Thirty shades

The cruel words spoken

Thank you for speaking kind and loving words full of respect for all dear bear...

Much love to all who are caring and suffer

Thank you Thirty shades

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Mopey

Many people don't pay anywhere near enough attention to the words they use, IMHO. Then if you use the same words on them, they get all bent out of shape. OR, they allow as how you are "too sensitive". "Don't be so nervous!" "Don't be so SENSITIVE!"

I don't find this amusing, I find it destructive, and it makes me very, very angry.

Many hugs to you, sensitive Fuzzy Bear.

Thank you Mopey

[Rohag]

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

someone who repeatedly disrespected innocent others

How often have I deceived myself concerning people by automatically disregarding their well-established patterns of behaviour?

Perhaps the more important question for myself is how did I "learn" to overlook such clues to character.

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Rohag

How often have I deceived myself concerning people by automatically disregarding their well-established patterns of behaviour?

Perhaps the more important question for myself is how did I "learn" to overlook such clues to character.

((((((((( Rohag )))))))))

I have also done this, many times.. overlooked red flags, well established patterns of behaviour

Good question...how did I also “learn” to overlook important clues to character

Much respect and care to you