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Old Sep 26, 2019, 10:43 AM
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I can relate to some posts..
but I can't post to them..
because I am weird and unlikeable and make too many mistakes..
so I have to keep my muzzle on..
and I don't have useful input either..

I can relate to very few people irl
because i'm weird and unlikeable
they all tell me that
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Old Sep 26, 2019, 11:41 AM
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Talking to Self: What is "useful input"? What input is "useful"?

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May the day arrive in which you feel no need for a muzzle.

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Old Sep 26, 2019, 11:45 AM
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Talking to Self: What is "useful input"? What input is "useful"?

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May the day arrive in which you feel no need for a muzzle.

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thank you dear Rohag
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Old Sep 26, 2019, 12:36 PM
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IRL they expect ???

We are AS IS and true...

Is this not enough?

I like you dear Fuzzybear and do not find you weird at all.

But then TS is often weird and unlikeable to those IRL

Unfortunately People IRL have a low tolerance for empathy and compassion.

With respect and loving kindness to all
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Old Sep 26, 2019, 12:53 PM
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(Sigh) irl they have such low tolerance for empathy and compassion :-(

(Rain)

(I’m tempted to say why don’t they “‘move on” from their lack of compassion and thoughtfulness (rain)

Everyone is imperfect, but some think they are .... (sigh)

Thank you dear Thirty shades for your kind and wise post (grouphug)

Much love and respect to all who are true and as is

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IRL they expect ???

We are AS IS and true...

Is this not enough?

I like you dear Fuzzybear and do not find you weird at all.

But then TS is often weird and unlikeable to those IRL

Unfortunately People IRL have a low tolerance for empathy and compassion.

With respect and loving kindness to all
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Old Sep 26, 2019, 02:55 PM
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I keep being reminded of … CPTSD..
its impossible to escape
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Old Sep 26, 2019, 04:22 PM
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I keep being reminded of … CPTSD..
its impossible to escape
Smothered in the emotional overload with no exits for respite...

Fight v fright
Freeze v fawn...

Are we just seen as awkward, weird and overly emotional?
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Old Sep 26, 2019, 04:29 PM
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Smothered in the emotional overload with no exits for respite...

Fight v fright
Freeze v fawn...

Are we just seen as awkward, weird and overly emotional?
We are AS IS and true

They love labelling and YOU statements
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Old Sep 27, 2019, 02:56 AM
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We are AS IS and true

They love labelling and YOU statements
I am labeled a faulty human...
But it is my fault I am not able to control myself...

We are AS IS and true
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Old Sep 27, 2019, 01:46 PM
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WHO are they to label us? WTF?

Why do they STILL do this. How dare they

Respect and empathy to all who have been violated by wrong, ugly labels (irl)
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Old Sep 27, 2019, 01:51 PM
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I am labeled a faulty human...
But it is my fault I am not able to control myself...

We are AS IS and true

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Old Sep 27, 2019, 04:23 PM
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Sadly there are many who label us faulty...

Too much pressure to take stuff that does not help many of us...

I am grateful for the support here at PC from those who truly understand
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