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i was relatively ok until my first breakdown....
then things got better until my second breakdown.....
finally my third breakdown took me very long to recover.....
never to be the same...

how about you rohag....and fuzzy can you say more....
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Default Jan 07, 2020 at 10:35 AM
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today i have been thinking about all the bad things i have done..........
guilty.....i can't change what i have done to other people......some mistakes...
i am definitely not an angel....but i am not a bad person.....
i know when i have done something wrong....and i understand
how hard it is to deal with your own guilt....
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Default Jan 07, 2020 at 11:49 AM
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No-one is perfect
We have all made mistakes LT

You have not made any mistakes, on the bus...
You are kind and patient...
Growing as a human being, is all we can do
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thanks TS....i am learning to live with the guilt.....
i am not a bad person....i have never raped or killed anyone....
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Depression has spread a cloud over my memories, and so I doubt my ability to assess myself correctly. Nevertheless, I am perhaps better equipped than any of the professionals I see, or have seen, to do so.

The idea that depression, and perhaps depression-anxiety, is "multi-factorial" attracts me. I am trying to tease apart dysfunctions that developed later from traits anchored in early childhood. I have little to show for my musings.

Perhaps the best conclusion I can currently reach is that circadian stresses to which I was subject in my active adult years unleashed processes, both physical and psychological, that resulted in my own "crash" around twenty years ago.


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Is it possible that listening too and treating your patients has in part caused some of your pain?

I can imagine it must have been difficult to hear some people's life events.
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Is it possible that listening too and treating your patients has in part caused some of your pain?

I can imagine it must have been difficult to hear some people's life events.

most of my patients were my friends...
the people who were in charge was the biggest problem...for me
it was all about efficiency and money....i hated it...
i only worked half time....i couldn't stand anymore than that...
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most of my patients were my friends...
the people who were in charge was the biggest problem...for me
it was all about efficiency and money....i hated it...
i only worked half time....i couldn't stand anymore than that...
The medical profession lost a very kind caring man.

In our forest there is not enough money either

I have also found having empathy from others allows me to hear tough stories without trauma. It is sadly missing from what professionals have told me more recently here.
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So much sadness in the world
I am going to have to stop visiting somewhere which makes me feel more depressed and there are also a.......rude A-holes there. Eff them

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what's a snake?? and what's this bus I keep reading about??

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what's a snake?? and what's this bus I keep reading about??

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Our inner snake = inner critic
Outer snakes = Narcissists and abusers

The bus is a metaphorical place where we can be together, share our thoughts and feelings and support / listen to our fellow passengers. It is okay to be silent on the bus or confess what is on your mind.

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Our inner snake = inner critic
Outer snakes = Narcissists and abusers

The bus is a metaphorical place where we can be together, share our thoughts and feelings and support / listen to our fellow passengers. It is okay to be silent on the bus or confess what is on your mind.

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Awe! This is adorable and thank you!
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nadia533 needs some help on the AS IS bus....
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nadia533 needs some help on the AS IS bus....
Would @nadia533 like to journey with us?

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I'd like to get on the bus. I feel pretty quiet now tho. Not too happy but it's not a big problem. It's Winter. I feel like hibernating like a . . . bear! Love and hugs to all those on the bus!
 
 
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Welcome to the bus Whatever2013.

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