If you had one last request ..... to the world what would it be..

“it’s in the way that you use it
Don’t let it go...”
It’s in the way that you lose it
It comes and it goes...”

“so don’t ever abuse it..
Don’t let it go...”

My last request would be.... do not let anyone put out your light. especially someone who is so very vocal and seemingly so very right.

(not about anyone on pc)



respect to all

To be completely and inexorably forgotten. (I do believe I'll get my wish.)

That is interesting maybe one day... but maybe not for quite some time. I do believe there are at least a few on here (in this reality) who would (or will) remember you with respect, and even fondness... you are one of those who (despite the issues “we all have”... I feel, to me, offers meaningful, or authentic communication .. and I know those are not nececessarily “one and the same”
(cant I google it, if I spell (smell?) it wrong
Oh dear oh dear oh dear
“i didn’t even get that personality test “right” first time
(As that UGLY “therapist” said... “what can this woman do” “thud”
AND yes he was an “anal retentive type of the worst kind” ....

TMI grrr me (thud)

Oh dear oh dear
TMI bad bad bad paws....

It is quite funny
In a dark way
I “even got that personality test wrong” .. the first time.
And the automated therapist said
“oh dear oh dear
You would even confuse Freud”

I would also like this wish.

It is a worry for me to be caught up in a big news event and have my name mentioned after my death.

I really doubt that will be an issue for nasty, little, insignificant me

I hadn’t even thought of that tbh, does that make me a “terrible person”

Or “just passive and naive” which the whole freakin world probably knows by now,
And I no longer care. Is that “a good thing”

I don’t mind being “insignificant” in fact I prefer it in most ways...
I’m not very smart

That “personality test” opened a few cans of worms..
If I had taken it years ago I might have
Made more “progress’”

Question

To all the kind and wise members on the bus..

How not to offend the offenders?

Much love
The naive little bear
(Yes it’s true, I really am that silly little bear (sigh thud)

Good question dear friend.

I have been advised by professionals that assertiveness is the answer.

I have been on courses. I think I fail due to being unable to manage my tone of voice.

Much love to you wise bear

I wonder if it is a good idea to take it?

Or maybe this time of year is not the right time?

I wonder why professionals do not guide us towards useful tools... Grrrrr

Sending empathy and compassion to you and your snake