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Old Jan 06, 2020, 10:54 AM
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My ''family'' made sure I knew my feelings did not matter. They made sure I knew I did not matter, had no value, and was a ''burden''... just for being me..
The professionals I have seen discredited my feelings (and me) and treated me as if I do not matter. And that my feelings were wrong. In fact my assessment of things (and people) is usually accurate. (or not wildly wrong and blaming as some have done to me... blamed and demonised me for the tiniest mistake. again ''proving'' that I do not matter..
Had I mentioned
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I won't bore people with the details

This is why I have problems with therapists and pdocs. Also I am allergic to all the meds.
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Old Jan 06, 2020, 11:05 AM
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The details are not boring to me.

It's awful. I'm so sorry.

You just couldn't win!
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Old Jan 06, 2020, 11:35 AM
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This is why I have problems with therapists and pdocs.
Those are good reasons.

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Old Jan 06, 2020, 11:37 AM
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Those are good reasons.

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Very good reasons!
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Old Jan 06, 2020, 01:49 PM
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I understand your trust has been broken

Your reasons are good

Your feelings matter to me. I am sorry that you are in pain and suffer
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Old Jan 06, 2020, 01:56 PM
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fuzzy your feelings do matter. Your family growing up was wrong. Those stupid professionals were wrong. I'm sure Mr Fuzzy tells you that your feelings matter. I know it's hard.
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Old Jan 07, 2020, 12:01 AM
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Your feelings matter, Sweetheart. They matter very much. It will help if u seek out people and circumstances who support you in realizing this.

I’ve fought, and continue to fight, the same battle myself. And no, it’s not easy.
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