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#1
Dec 23, 2007, 06:22 AM
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...as the day keeps getting nearer. I'm growing so much more sadder.
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Dec 23, 2007, 07:51 AM
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((((chalm)))))))))))))
I am sorry for another goodbye for you Its hard to take all those goodbyes Know you are strong and a good person Know we all care for you here |
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Dec 23, 2007, 09:44 AM
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(((((((((Chalm))))))))
Oh baby I an sending you so much love and care..... you are one of the brave and caring people I ever met, wishing you the best now and always Love and hugs, Kerry xxxxxxx |
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Dec 23, 2007, 09:57 AM
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chalm: I guess I missed it. Are you leaving here? Do you have to go? I think we will miss you if you do.
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Now if thou would'st When all have given him o'er From death to life Thou might'st him yet recover -- Michael Drayton 1562 - 1631 |
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Dec 23, 2007, 10:56 AM
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You have it all in your big heart.
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Dec 23, 2007, 11:18 AM
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Hey Cuz, Hope 2008 is better than 2007 for you. I think we could all use a better year. (((((((Chal)))))
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#7
Dec 23, 2007, 03:03 PM
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My nephew that i've raised as my own since he was born is leaving later this week. His father, my brother, has decided its time for him to raise him. My brother moved to Illinois a month back. He is suppose to arrive sometime tonite and right after christmas he is taking my nephew with him back up to Illinois.
That boy is my heart. Thank you all for your kind words. This just hurts so much.
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So often we dwell on the things that seem impossible rather than on the things that are possible. So often we are depressed by what remains to be done and forget to be thankful for all that has been done.--Marian Wright Edelman |
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Dec 23, 2007, 04:49 PM
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(((((Chalm))))))))))
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Dec 23, 2007, 05:37 PM
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ohhhhhhhhhhh.... my heart is breaking with yours..... I am so sorry..... (((hugs))))
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Dec 23, 2007, 06:47 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((chalmette)))))))))))))))))))))
im so sorry that you nephew is leaving your home to go and live with his father, just let him know that he can vist you any time he needs and look forward to those holidays that you can see him again sorry but glad his father is taking responsiblity
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Dec 23, 2007, 07:37 PM
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Oh ((((((((((((((( chalm ))))))))))))))))
I can only imagine how this makes you feel. Let this not be good-bye but just "so long for now". Good-bye's to me seem so final...and this doesn't have to be a final thing for either of you. Your nephew will take with him all the love you gave him over the years. He will take with him the wonderful memories he has of his aunty. You will both always be connected, your bonds never to be broken. It's not good-bye.....it's "so long" dear nephew....godspeed and love on your next journey. With much love sabby |
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#12
Dec 24, 2007, 04:10 AM
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My nephew asked me to tuck him in tonite. I said of course. I kissed him on the forehead and told him i loved him. And he had tears in his eyes when i looked at his face. He told me, this will be the last time you get to tuck me in.
He offered his room to his dad and fiance' while they are here. He said he will sleep on the couch. My heart is breaking. I am so proud of who he has become. ((((Muffy))))) ((((Freewill))) ((((Katheryn)))) ((((Sabby)))))
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Dec 24, 2007, 04:32 AM
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Looks like you've given this young man a strong foundation for life - resilience and the strength to care about others no matter what he is going through. In fact, he sounds a lot like you - I'm glad you've raised a child you can be proud of. Be proud of yourself too. Will be thinking of you
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Dec 24, 2007, 07:56 AM
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((((((((((((( chalmette )))))))))))))
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Dec 24, 2007, 11:34 AM
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(((((((((((chalmette))))))))) take care with your heart ...
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Dec 24, 2007, 04:15 PM
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((((((((Big))))))))
(((((Fuzzy)))))))) and ((((((nowhere))))))) Thank you I'm so not in this holiday spirit. I walk out of the room and put that mask on. All they are talking about is taking Tres' and leaving already. Telling him what hes going to do and not do. He has no voice. I feel like just sleeping through this whole holiday. I dont feel merry, not happy. I want something to forget everything around me.
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So often we dwell on the things that seem impossible rather than on the things that are possible. So often we are depressed by what remains to be done and forget to be thankful for all that has been done.--Marian Wright Edelman |
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Dec 24, 2007, 11:39 PM
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sending more ((((hugs)))) chalmette ...
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Dec 26, 2007, 11:52 PM
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(((((chalmette)))))
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Dec 27, 2007, 02:25 AM
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(((((((nowhere))))))))))
(((((((wings)))))))))) thank you for the hugs. .gif) 
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So often we dwell on the things that seem impossible rather than on the things that are possible. So often we are depressed by what remains to be done and forget to be thankful for all that has been done.--Marian Wright Edelman |
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#20
Dec 27, 2007, 08:25 AM
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chalm, i almost died the last day i saw my son... please come on here and talk to us and let us share some of that weight... its hard to go it alone...
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Dec 27, 2007, 08:29 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((( chalm & Tres ))))))))))))))))))))))
How are you holding up chalm? Please let us hear from you. Let us be your sounding board. We love you and care about you hon. Sending special and gentle hugs....strength and understanding to you sweety.  sabby |
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#22
Dec 27, 2007, 03:27 PM
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((((Chalmette))))
Sorry I'm late seeing this thread. This must be incredibly difficult for you. But you can keep in touch with your nephew through lettters, e-mail, and phone calls. This doesn't mean you're losing him forever. --splitimage
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#23
Dec 27, 2007, 03:34 PM
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Chal
I've not seen you in forever, I'd hoped things were getting better
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#24
Dec 29, 2007, 04:17 AM
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Its about 2 in the morning on saturday. Around 5 this evening my brother, erica and tres will be leaving and moving to Illinois.
I've spent the last few days doing nothing but crying. My eyes are so swollen. I know its the right and the best thing for my nephew. I'm just mad. Mad that they have to move away and so far. Everyone, family and friends have done the same thing. They've all moved away. I have no friends down here now. And the only family is my parents. I feel so alone. I wrote my nephew a letter and i put it in his bag. Sometime tomorrow while he's on the road, he'll come across the letter. I just hope i dont upset him in the letter. I know already he is feeling the homesickness coming on. He's being the tuff guy and acting like everything is so cool. I'm worried about him. I want him to find some friends. I want him to enjoy school and like his teachers. I just want him to be happy and not worry about things. I want him to be a kid and have fun. Dont know wether i'll be able to sleep tonite or not.
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So often we dwell on the things that seem impossible rather than on the things that are possible. So often we are depressed by what remains to be done and forget to be thankful for all that has been done.--Marian Wright Edelman |
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#25
Dec 29, 2007, 05:20 AM
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((((((((((((((chalmette))))))))))))))))
baby, just know I care and you will be in my thoughts,I'm so sorry you have this to deal with, know I am here, and caj and the others ...... pm me anytime, not spoken in ages, but you are always in my thoughts ... always ....and I mean that....... love you, Kerry xxxxxx |
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