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Old Mar 14, 2020, 01:23 AM
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Recently,i realized something sad;almost all the 'friends' i had since primary usually bully me,some of them are emotionally unavailable while others are downright emotionally abusive.i tried to ignore it eventhough i got diagonised with major depression and used to self-harm.my dad changed my school after they discovered i was self-harming.the new school turns out to be worst.my classmates (90%) hate me because i behave "not like a normal human being",i keep telling myself i will graduate soon (in a few months),i told myself it is okay,but the bullying is getting worst.
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Old Mar 14, 2020, 10:31 AM
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High school sucks :/
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Old Mar 14, 2020, 02:32 PM
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Old Mar 14, 2020, 03:01 PM
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I was bullied both verbally as well as physically, throughout high school. To say it destroyed my life may be an overstatement. But it may not be far off either. Studies done over the past few years demonstrate the effects of school bullying can last well into adulthood.

You mentioned you'll graduate in a few months. And that's certainly a good thing. But don't presume the bullying you've experienced will simply vanish once you have your diploma in hand. Here's a link to an article from the Bustle.com website that talks about 5 ways childhood bullying affects you as an adult:

5 Ways Childhood Bullying Affects You As An Adult, From Brain Chemistry To DNA

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Old Mar 14, 2020, 03:03 PM
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I was bullied both verbally as well as physically, throughout high school. To say it destroyed my life may be an overstatement. But it may not be far off either. Studies done over the past few years demonstrate the effects of school bullying can last well into adulthood.

You mentioned you'll graduate in a few months. And that's certainly a good thing. But don't presume the bullying you've experienced will simply vanish once you have your diploma in hand. Here's a link to an article from the Bustle.com website that talks about 5 ways childhood bullying affects you as an adult:

5 Ways Childhood Bullying Affects You As An Adult, From Brain Chemistry To DNA

Please take care.
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bullies suck

all types and flavours of bullies Suck

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Old Mar 14, 2020, 03:41 PM
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Water off a ducks back.

Try not to take it so seriously. The bully is probably weak inside anyway. Laugh at the comments and move on.

Don't feed into it. It's just words... Nothing more... Try to think what they are saying and turn that into something positive.

Best advice I can give. Just ignore them and forget and move on. Don't let it stop you from completing your goals.

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