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Why does fuzzy bear attract people who ''abandon'' her? Just like the PUS

My rant was about the ''professionals'' in IRL and their lack of higher thought or empathy
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Old Sep 08, 2020, 12:05 PM
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I have not found that being kind and supportive helps me to ''achieve'' what I want in life. LIFE SUCKS

The paternal unit was a ''high achiever'' and a sociopath. I remember someone saying if they had had my PUS they would be ''bitter as hell'' Most of the time, I am not ''a bitter person''.... I just do not wish to keep my muzzle on all the freakin time
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I have not found that being kind and supportive helps me to ''achieve'' what I want in life. LIFE SUCKS

The paternal unit was a ''high achiever'' and a sociopath. I remember someone saying if they had had my PUS they would be ''bitter as hell'' Most of the time, I am not ''a bitter person''.... I just do not wish to keep my muzzle on all the freakin time
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Old Sep 08, 2020, 12:42 PM
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Grrrrrrr Professionals

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Old Sep 09, 2020, 03:05 PM
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Grrrrrrr Professionals

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I know grrr. It really isn't ''us'' in this forest IRL is it? Far too many of them - professionals - are lacking in respect, without being ''justified'' in being that way. We respect them, and they offer disrespect back, How back to front and insane is that?

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I know grrr. It really isn't ''us'' in this forest IRL is it? Far too many of them - professionals - are lacking in respect, without being ''justified'' in being that way. We respect them, and they offer disrespect back, How back to front and insane is that?

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It is not us

In our forest they have no respect.

Professionals don't understand us at all....

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Old Sep 09, 2020, 04:51 PM
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It is not us

In our forest they have no respect.

Professionals don't understand us at all....

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You speak the truth dear friend

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Old Sep 09, 2020, 05:12 PM
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It is not us

In our forest they have no respect.

Professionals don't understand us at all....

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It is very important (imho) that we are allowed to speak. Those of us with negligent parental units have been blamed, preached to, and silenced too much. It is not ok. We deserve respect.

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Old Sep 09, 2020, 05:42 PM
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I deleted my rant

Why does fuzzy bear attract people who ''abandon'' her? Just like the PUS

My rant was about the ''professionals'' in IRL and their lack of higher thought or empathy
I do not have to ''please'' everyone, in fact it is impossible to do so. I desire to be ME, and it is ok to be me
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Old Sep 09, 2020, 05:44 PM
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Thank you little turtle for always listening

I know all the ''standard advice'' which some irl spout... I don't need to hear it again

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Old Sep 09, 2020, 05:45 PM
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Fuzzy bear is a good bear. I do not have to talk to those who try to muzzle me
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I do not have to ''please'' everyone, in fact it is impossible to do so. I desire to be ME, and it is ok to be me
This is so true dear friend.

We are all as is.

I am happy to work with myself but I will not be another.....
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