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Wisest Elder Ever
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#84
Grandfather was a minister.
''They'' lied to him....... I have ''always been a misfit'' (as defined by ''family'' ... and much worse) They were (and are) all perfect. idk... it doesn't make a lot of sense. How do I stop poking myself with their stick of blame. Or is it even possible Rhetorical question..... I'm working on it.. And on ''staying alive'' (this is NOT about the situation in the world) __________________ |
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#86
Thank you all.
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#88
Sometimes it's not as easy finding the social groups forums as it once was.... sometimes I forget to go there.
Thank you for the reminder. __________________ |
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#89
To all the ''misfits'' (like me)
Do you ''suffer from transference''.. if so, what does that mean? A therapist encouraged ''transference'' (irl...) __________________ |
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In psychology, transference is this: (oops, wrong link--just fixed it) Transference | Psychology Today Transference can be a good feeling (the examples I cite above); it can also be messy. If you read some of the posts in the psychoanalysis forum, it shows how sometimes people develop romantic feelings for their therapist--we know these feelings are inappropriate but when a person is not used to getting loving attention--sometimes our emotions overreact. We all need love and attention. |
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#93
I'm a misfit. I don't find .............................................. helpful
I'm a misfit. I don't like that word. I am either ''too quiet'' or say ''too much'' - according to those ''wonderful'' ''Experts'' who enjoy listing other peoples ''shortcomings''... I really really don't like some other words __________________ Last edited by Fuzzybear; Dec 10, 2020 at 11:25 PM.. |
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Been Down So Long It Looks Like Up to Me
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#95
Today I visited the Swiss Alps & Scottish islands via tv travelogues, & it gave me a lift.
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#96
I'm a horrible person.
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Dear @Fuzzybear, you are one of the last members of this planet who would be thought of as horrible. You are so very sensitive! Horrible people & bears are extremely INsensitive! You are keeper!!
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Had my 3 month (virtual) follow-up appointment with my pdoc today. It took all of maybe 10 minutes if that? What is there to say? Nothing really. Everything simply is what it is.
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I'm feeling depressed tonight. I had some bad thoughts come up that haven't been there in a while. It's late in the day. It was gray all day. I feel tired. I think all those things are affecting my mood. The only thing I can do is go to bed. Maybe if I meditate, I might feel better.
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