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Member Since Jul 2019
Location: Michigan
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Apr 22, 2024 at 12:39 AM
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My mother despises me. She shows me no love, caring, or affection no matter what. I AM 50 and she is 74 but because I lost my license, I am stuck living with her and suffering her constant torment. Nothing helps, no matter what I do or say, she just demeans me and belittles me and makes me feel like a worthless piece of trash.
The damn state will not give me my license. I am trapped in hell. I have been tortured and abused my whole life and I do nothing but rot in bed and she dances in my misery. When I try to talk to her about anything, she remains completely silent, like I am invisible. Oh god, there is no escape. |
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Apr 22, 2024 at 05:46 AM
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Omg, i was in the almost the same spot about 20 years ago, same age differences, having lost my job and my mind. She even said to me, "You don't like having to come here, do you." I'm a broken person. The hurt is too deep. Where do you go when your mother rejects you, yet demands you stay in range. Its an impossible situation.
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Apr 22, 2024 at 11:07 AM
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I just lost my job too. She sees it as such a trouble to drive me anywhere so I do not ask her to so I remain in prison in my home. I lost everything and everyone.
She is so selfish and is so dependent on me to do the littlest things. She calls me trash, disgusting, and a tramp (even though I have not been with anyone for 4 years). |
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Location: europe
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May 10, 2024 at 09:27 PM
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Don't do anything she depends on you for if she keeps insulting you... even if you're stuck there, it doesn't mean you need to interact. These kind of people need this feedback (years ago I decided never to talk to an asshole ever again... and I don't regret it one bit even after the ****er is buried...)
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May 11, 2024 at 03:05 PM
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Sorry to hear that. Try get out of the house & go for a walk or to a nearby place with wifi.
Stay in your room at home & use headphones. Hopefully you can get a license & find a good job soon so that you csn move out. My parents are abusive too. Thank goodness I gat I got married & moved out of the house. |
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