[dexter]

I'm up early for two phone calls I was expecting today, both came early in the morning, and one of them was so stressful that it shook my foundation off of its rockers. My stomach is in knots and there's no way I am going to be able to eat today. There's no one around I can call even putting aside the fact that 90% of the people around won't talk to me anymore anyway.

I think I'm going to just go back to bed for awhile. I don't think I'll even be able to go out and read or get some air. My head is just spinning, and it feels like everything is coming back again.

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[shakes]

(((((Dex)))))
I agree with Ozzie. Just take care of yourself and we will be here when you feel up to talking more. Sometimes we just have to say "To hell with the day."

Jessica

"Take these chances. Place them in a box until a quieter time..." ~DMB

[dexter]

I don't want to say the details for fear of someone I know reading this. I don't think the people involved are spying on me I just don't want to take the chance.

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[shakes]

Dex,
Whatever helps you feel safe. If you would feel better you know that you can PM me. Please take care of yourself.

Jessica

"Take these chances. Place them in a box until a quieter time..." ~DMB

[mj14]

dex, I'm so sorry that things are going so badly. I'm sending you every good thought I have.

*huge hugs for dex*
Jo

<font color=green> If she spins fast enough then maybe the broken pieces of her heart will stay together, but even a gyroscope can't spin forever</font color=green>

[Fuzzybear]

Dex, I am very sorry things are so bad at the moment. Got you in my thoughts ((((((((((((((((((((Dex))))))))))))))))))))

[wisewoman]

Hope you are feeling a little more at ease. Also hope whatever the phone call was has settled. I hate that blown out of the water feeling.

[SeptemberMorn]

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It's okay to take a break. Like Jessica said, sometimes you just have to say "To hell with today!"

I'll be saying a few special prayers for you.

Luv ya!




<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>

[inkblot]

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[dexter]

I really can't take a break, because I am on a deadline with regard to my mortgage. I am working hard, and more or less successfully, not to beat myself up for things I failed to do in the past, but if I had taken care of this a month ago I could have done it with no deadline pressure, much better chance of getting the loan I need, a better loan, and could have solved this before going into foreclosure. It would have only taken one phone call to get the ball rolling and see what my options were, the same phone call I ended up making after I was served the foreclosure papers.

I can't look back on that and say "I should have" but I can't sit by and let it happen again, especially since I am running out of "Get out of jail free" cards.

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[krzyk101]

~Dexter~
Just to let you know, I'm thinking of you~

Take Care- Chris

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~KRIS~


If you think you have totally gave up, you haven't, because you are here!

[Maya]

Dexter - you have helped so many with your wise advise and assistance. We are all sending our positive thoughts your way. Please take care of yourself and know we all care.

The vision of your goodness will sustain me through the cold
Take my hand now to remember when you find yourself alone
You are never alone… (John Denver)
Mars

[Wants2Fly]

Dexter -- Please don't beat yourself up about not taking action sooner. I know a little bit about the foreclosure RE market -- and the phenomenon of feeling overwhelmed, of existing in denial and disbelief, is widespread. Which is how properties wind up in foreclosure. One's home is more than just a shelter but a highly emotional issue.

Many more foreclosure auctions are announced that ever take place, and most of those that are stopped are stopped at the 59th minute of the 11th hour. Investors who go to the auctions never know if properties that were on the docket as recently as the afternoon before will go up for sale.

The way you handled things, it's common. I hope you will give yourself some strokes for taking action NOW!

I am sorry that you are feeling so stressed out about the phone calls, and I hope that hugs and love of we here helps.

[dexter]

I was able to eat a little today, and to do some cleaning so the house looks OK for the appraisor tomorrow. I hope I can get some rest tonight.

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[itsjustme111]

(((((Dexter))))), I wish I had more to say but I am not sure what the right thing would be. I am glad you could eat a little and best wished with the house. Yes, I hope you are able to get some sleep, you need it. Thoughts are with you.

justy

[Wants2Fly]

I hope the sleep was restful and that the appraisal goes well. Give yourself some hugs for eating!

[shakes]

(((Dex)))))

Jessica

"Take these chances. Place them in a box until a quieter time..." ~DMB

[krzyk101]

Dexter-

Am glad you were able to eat some. Do hope you did get some rest last night. Sending hope for this difficult day-

It's a new day and you are in my thoughts-
take care-Chris

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~KRIS~


If you think you have totally gave up, you haven't, because you are here!

[SeptemberMorn]

I'm glad you had better luck at eating than I've had finding that danged money tree! Gave up on the grove of 'em. Just one would do...

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<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>