[brokengirl]

okay so i just found out that me ex turned stalker is knowen by the cops around here, im finding out all this stuff about him, i wonder if anything he said and told was the truth, apprently he stalked his last girlfriend (who has the same name as me) for four months, all of my old coworkers and friends tell me now that they always thought he was crazy, and one of my friends is the one that told me he stalked his last girlfriend, and when i asked them why didnt you tell me this stuff before i moved him in to my house with my family, all they could say is i dont know, i mean come on why couldnt they have given me a heads up,it makes me so mad that i exposed my baby to this kinda person, that my judge of him was so far off, now i cant get rid of him, everywhere i go he is there, he comes to my house leaves notes on my car comes to my work trys to get hired where i work, i finnaly talked to a cop that gave me some information on what i could do cause before all i got was nothing everyone i talked to out here told me untill he got violent i couldnt do anything well apperently they were wrong, im just so messed up, i thought he was the one we were gonna get married in march, had almost everything worked out, im still getting emails from a wedding site, why did this happen how did i not see him for who he was, now i feel like i let my baby down cause i brought him into his life, i just want all this crap to stop, im sorry for rambling i just needed to talk,

[Lenny]

Please don't feel shamed by this Broken...

The "con" in con men is sharpened to a very fine edge...It is their busines to make people believe and they become very good at it..

I am so sorry that your dreams were broken along with your heart..and it is good that you talk about it and make your feelings see the air...it changes them...gives them less power..Keep talking about them..and let the anger that will soon form out too...

We are here..and please take that police officer's advice..If he stalks you issue and RO...

Do not let him think he has power over you and your family...because he does not..

Lenny

[DOWNINNATICK]

Hey Brokengirl;
Lenny is right, you have nothing to be ashamed of, he is the problem and a very good con man. Take that officers advice and also check into the stalking laws, to be well informed to fight fire with fire. Just let your kids know to stay far away from him and if they see him near the house or them to call the police.

Keep posting and talking here and also with your neighbors and friends.