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Oct 10, 2008, 01:56 PM
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I want him back
 He told me the reason and he just blames himself for something that he didn't even do... I've tried to make him see he's done nothing wrong. I love him so much... I can't loose my boyfriend and best friend like this sorry for whining about it again I just love him so so SO much and it kills me knowing he loves me too, but we're not together
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Oct 10, 2008, 02:15 PM
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Stand back and wait...don't pressure him..let him ask the questions,,remind him when he needs it that you Love him..
But when we are confused and filled with fear we are like chased butterflies...we elude.. But if one sits quietly,,with patience,,often one will land upon your shoulder...  With care, Lenny
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Oct 10, 2008, 04:21 PM
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He sent me an email that I've just read totally contradicting himself
He says that I'm a wonderful person and I'm practically perfect. Then he said that it wasn't anything to do with me. But he ended saying he loved me and always will love me. ???????? WHAT!!!!!!!!! I need him to talk to me face to face.... he broke up in the first place by text and won't respect the fact that I'm human and he can't just say little bits every so often that don't make sense! I just don't understand and I need him to explain to me. I just hope so much that this isn't because of his mum. I can't live like this
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Oct 10, 2008, 06:37 PM
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(((SGF)))
be careful with your emotions now hon, i know it seems impossible, but move slowly now, think things through... keep your love alive ... you can still love him and take some time to breathe for yourself and him too.. the emotions are really raw right now.. do what is best for yourself.. if you do this for yourself now, you will positively thank yourself in the future.. maintain your sense of self respect and also respect others now... and scream if it helps, just dont hurt anyone, especially you, k? after you get through this you can think of healthier ways to manage the extreme emotions you are having now... but accept that you are loveable and that the love you have for others is healthy and good.. you're only working on delivery... take some breaths, k? sending hugs |
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