[reddevil]

Everything seems really really wrong.

My friend went to a pdoc, who gave him nothing, even though he is severely depressed, and sometimes suicidal, and 19. This leaves me and his girlfriend doing our best for him, which is nowhere near enough.

I was (possibly, i'm not sure) understandably stressed by this, so I called my ex, just because I wanted to hear his voice, and talk about trivial stuff for however long I needed so I felt better. We've been working on things, and up until now, it's gone well.

His mum had other ideas though, and told him to get off the phone. When he explained why he was on the phone, she became even more insistant.

So, I'm back to square one with the situation there, and with my friend. His girlfriend has been there for both of us, but now her dad is saying she shouldn't be there for me when I'm down too.

I don't know.. it's probably not even that bad or important. I just don't feel good at all right now

[DOWNINNATICK]

((((((( Red )))))))
Some people can be reel biatches and you shouldn't let them get to you, your ex's mom is just a witch and doesn't understand or doesn't want to understand that you and your ex are friends and tring to work things out. The girlfriends father maybe just worried that she may be affected by the depression and get it, he doesn't understand depression isn't catchy.

If thinks to you seem bad, it's good to post or have someone to listen to you, so you can feel better. You can always pm me and I can try to help you anytime.

And your friend that went to a pdoc and wasn't given anything, maybe he hasn't found the right pdoc., just give that doctor a chance, maybe the doctor just wants to get to know him a little first.

Feel better, things will get brighter soon.

Hugs
Cindy

[reddevil]

He won't go back, not now that's happened. I know he should, I also know that he just won't.

It's hard to not let her get to me, when she's making damn sure we can never be together (we're trying to make it work), and being totally uncompassionate, and making it so that he can't be there for me when I need him. And if I can't go to him when I need to, how is it a real relationship?

[gimmeice]

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I am sorry that you are having such a hard time.

[darkrunner]

(((((reddevil)))))
Why doesn't she want you to be together? Why do you think she is so uncompassionate?
You seem like such a nice person, I wonder how she can be against you...

[Blue93]

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[reddevil]

Originally Posted by ktgirl

(((((reddevil)))))
Why doesn't she want you to be together? Why do you think she is so uncompassionate?
You seem like such a nice person, I wonder how she can be against you...

She cares only about him, and herself. I think if you asked her, she'd say she was fine about him being with me, but she wouldn't be keeping in mind what that really means- that I get down, and sometimes just want him.

[kebsfroggy]

I'm sending you these rainbows to help chase away the blues.



Wish there was more that I could do.