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Old Dec 15, 2008, 07:36 AM
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how to make this feeling go away????
iam feel so lonely and no one cares for me...
i have bf but he even never cares for me ..i dont understand why iam get back together with him...i know all people thing that iam stupid its true iam extremely stupid...iam not good on expression....i just want someone know how to love me without being told.....everything just makes me feel so down and sad...i plan to meet my pdoc today but i cancel it and i told my bf too about this and he even dont ask me if i go to my pdoc or not?or how i feel today?thats simple question and why he cant do it?
i think he could help me get through this but in fact its make me feel not worth it...am i worth?

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Old Dec 15, 2008, 07:47 AM
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Of course you are worth it. We all are. we all deserve to be happy. You need to see the pdoc today. you need to get your feelings out. maybe by journaling? Have you spoke with anybody so far about this today?

Is there anything i can do to help?

Hang in there.

Colleen
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Old Dec 15, 2008, 07:54 AM
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dear puffyprue,

yes you are worth so much . . .i dont know why your boyfriend cannot see that. you are not asking too much for a kind word - or even a question, some form of concern from him.

why did you cancel your appointment? is it bc you were feeling badly? sometimes when you feel badly it actually turns out to be a good time to go bc the dr/T gets to see that side of you close up and personal.

whatever the case may be, i hope that your day goes better.
and i dont think you are stupid.
but i do know how it feels to feel this way. and to think this way. sometimes i think of myself and i only see negative - like i'll tell myself, "you're a loser." or "you're unloveable" or "you'll never get the hang of life - why do you even try?" its hard to come up out of that place some times.
and say, "i am worth it." sometimes you have to say it for quite awhile before you begin to believe but dont give up!

just wanted you to know that you are not alone and that someone does care how your day goes.

sincerely,
clara
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Old Dec 15, 2008, 08:12 AM
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i wish i knew how to let you help me..but it help coz all of you respons my post....
i feel so misserable....ineed someone to hold me so i can get through this night and not try to do something stupid....i dont know why i cancel my appoitment with my pdoc but i will try to go at wednesday...
how i wish someone will hold me tonight....and i will be safe...
i think iam drowning....iam so scared.....
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Old Dec 15, 2008, 08:19 AM
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i wish i knew how to let you help me..but it help coz all of you respons my post....
i feel so misserable....ineed someone to hold me so i can get through this night and not try to do something stupid....i dont know why i cancel my appoitment with my pdoc but i will try to go at wednesday...
how i wish someone will hold me tonight....and i will be safe...
i think iam drowning....iam so scared.....
prueyou really need to follow up with your pdoc. many of the feelings of unworthiness can be helped if you let him/her know how you have been feeling. i hope you will do this for yourself. it will help you.. i hope your day becomes brighter....you can get better, just try to have faith that you can.
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