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Dec 07, 2008, 05:13 PM
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I wish....
that I have a normal family...parent who loves me for who I am and care about me.. I wish I can choose the life that I wanna live... I wish I have a dad or a mom who hugs me,listen and allow me to cry and tell all the stuff that is bothering me..... I wish we can discuss in a matural and rational way...that we take benifit from that discussion... I wish I'm not so lonely..  ....I fed up  ....18 years suffering from the same thing...and everyboy fed up too bcoz I complane about the same stuff again and again.I have alot of things that is bothering me that no one in the world will understands.I relife that sadnees by crying bcoz no one wants to listen at my home. I wish my life change soon...and forget all things that were bothering me and those just be a memory....that's what keeps me alive 
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Dec 07, 2008, 07:08 PM
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((((((((brokenheart1))))))))) I'm so sorry that you don't have a family that you can talk to, that will listen to you. I'm so sorry you have grown up without hugs. Is there anyone at all that you can talk to IRL about what's going on? Can you give us some more information when you say no one will understand what's going on? We have a very diverse group of people here, someone may be going or have gone through something similar. Is it possible that your situation will change soon, as you wish for? Please know that you are not alone as long as you are here, and I know it's not the hugs you were wishing for but....
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Dec 08, 2008, 07:02 AM
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(((((((((((((((( brokenheart1 )))))))))))))))))))))
I am sorry that you are going through this, I know that it is a hard struggle when your family is just not there for you, I usually get the speech about how I let things bother me too much and I should just let it go( if it were only that easy). The bad part is my mother thinks that we are a healthy functioning family and there is nothing wrong with saying get over it. I also understand the no hugs, as an adult now I am addicted to hugs as I didn't get that many as a child. Here are some hugs from me to you. 
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Dec 09, 2008, 11:17 AM
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Thank you..I needed your support
..you really made me smile   I wish you a great holiday 
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Dec 09, 2008, 11:25 AM
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BH, this is probably even harder for you with your culture where your family is such a central part of your being. I am sorry. Anyone can only work with what they have though. It is somewhat easier for us here where we are raised as individuals and we can seperate from our families more easily than in a group culture where independence just feels very uncomfortable........
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Dec 09, 2008, 11:32 AM
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*hugs*
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