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Dec 17, 2008, 08:03 AM
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i fight with my bf tonight....he yell at me i told him all the time please dont yell at me coz its makes me scared ..he know it for sure but still yell at me....
iam fight coz he jelous with my bestfriends...my bestfriends means everything to me why he cant understand that??? of course my bestfriends is so special coz he always there for me in every condition....and my bf he just get back to my life and where is he when i need him most? he not there but my bestfriends still there and he said why u not become a couple ...i just dont understand ..did i made mistake?i love my bestfriends...and tonight i dont know how its feel but i even cant cry but it more worse coz it hurt so much in my chest but i cant cry..and tonight i miss my tears... now i realize that it hurt more when you get hurt but u cant cry....
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Dec 17, 2008, 08:15 AM
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figure out your boundary puffytrue, choose safety and health for yourself, your bf can choose to follow or not
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Dec 17, 2008, 08:55 AM
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((((((((((((( puffyprue )))))))))))))))))
This really sounds like your boyfriends problem, I agree that you need to set boundaries and maintain them. 
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Dec 17, 2008, 09:22 AM
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It's not good to be with someone that won't allow you to have friends. Then he likely to try and control you with other things aswell. Take care of you ((((((( puffyprue ))))))) 
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Dec 17, 2008, 09:25 AM
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thanks everyone ..maybe he so jelous coz my bestfriend is a guy..but i never jelous with all his girlfriends ....i cant help my self..iam so stupid..
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Dec 17, 2008, 10:09 AM
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you are not stupid, you are only learning about it now, its ok...
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Dec 17, 2008, 12:38 PM
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No hunny you're not stupid... you have a lot of love in your heart and this guy can't see that. Don't shrug off your best friend just because your boyfriend is jealous... he should love and trust you enough to be ok with you being friends with him. (and take it from someone who learnt the hard way... a boyfriend is SO not worth loosing your friends because of)
You already know what I think about the situation with your boyfriend... this just kinda confirms it. Take care of yourself sweetheart, Molly oh... the tears will come soon, I know it hurts when you can't cry.. but you will get relief
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Dec 17, 2008, 07:59 PM
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prue
, your bf is trying to control you by who you see, etc. if he truly cares about you ,the person, he'd not put restrictions on you or your life. that is not caring, that is controlling. i agree with some of the others...give him a choice 1. to let you "own" your own life or 2. show him the door. you deserve loving people in your life. you are a beautiful person inside and out.  our lives are so precious that no one should impose their "rules" on us. it's our life to live as we choose as long as our actions do not harm others. you are not controlling of him. he is trying to control you.
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