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Old Dec 30, 2008, 09:37 PM
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today just another sad days ....i feel so alone everyone leave me...am i bad person so i even not worth it for simple words "goodbye"?
i should not let anyone to hurt me.. i should not get to tight to people so i wont get hurt...
i understand it hard to making relation with someone like me who dealing with alot of issue...i try to open my self and let anyone know about me and this is what i got they leave me...but its okay....or even iam not okay i will pretending iam okay...i just so sad...sigh.... ..poor me...
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Old Dec 30, 2008, 09:41 PM
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Sorry to see you are hurting. I am with you in this hard time. I am sure you are not a bad person. People that leave without saying goodbye are afraid to hurt you I think. They aren't mad with you. I know that doesn't make it hurt less, but please don't feel like you are bad and that's why they leave and do not say good bye.
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Old Dec 30, 2008, 09:47 PM
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Sorry to see you are hurting. I am with you in this hard time. I am sure you are not a bad person. People that leave without saying goodbye are afraid to hurt you I think. They aren't mad with you. I know that doesn't make it hurt less, but please don't feel like you are bad and that's why they leave and do not say good bye.
Thank you...but it hurt more when they leave without saying goodbye and leave me in bewilderment..its hurt so much when they said they want to know me but after i opened my self they leave..i know i dont have place where i belong and now i realized something its sounds bitter but so true that no one will love me and wants me coz iam not able to deserve it....
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Old Dec 30, 2008, 10:13 PM
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I have noticed that you are good person, you have been reaching out to help other people in need here by answering their posts. You will find peace, because you are a caring person.
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Old Dec 31, 2008, 02:29 AM
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today just another sad days ....i feel so alone everyone leave me...am i bad person so i even not worth it for simple words "goodbye"?
i should not let anyone to hurt me.. i should not get to tight to people so i wont get hurt...
i understand it hard to making relation with someone like me who dealing with alot of issue...i try to open my self and let anyone know about me and this is what i got they leave me...but its okay....or even iam not okay i will pretending iam okay...i just so sad...sigh.... ..poor me...
Lots of hugs for you.
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Old Dec 31, 2008, 02:54 AM
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I feel like my life is similar to yours and I also feel like I don't have nor ever will have friends. I'm living away from my husband and my parents in order to finish my education in the US. I always feel like people usually do not want to hear about my personal thoughts or feelings. I feel sad for both of us but also happy that there is someone like me as well!
I may not be in the best of my spirits but I am confident that we all deserve to be loved. We just need to work on our self-esteem! Hope this makes you feel better!

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Thank you...but it hurt more when they leave without saying goodbye and leave me in bewilderment..its hurt so much when they said they want to know me but after i opened my self they leave..i know i dont have place where i belong and now i realized something its sounds bitter but so true that no one will love me and wants me coz iam not able to deserve it....
Thanks for this!
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Old Dec 31, 2008, 03:00 AM
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I sympathize with you. I tend to have similar feelings as you do too. But I do believe there is hope for us. I am planning to begin seeing a psychiatrist from next week. I'm glad to see that you have feelings similar to mine. Now I feel like it's all part of our mind and not an actual fact. We need to work on our self esteem in order to get over it!
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Old Dec 31, 2008, 03:24 PM
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((((((((((((((((( puffyprue )))))))))))))))))
You're a good person!! sending gentle thoughts and hugs
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