[jen_9_crimes]

i just found out my oldest brother is moving away! i dont know what to do! cant imagine how ill get through the day he always picks me up when i fall or makes me laugh when noone else can!!! what do i do?????

[gimmeice]

(((((((((((( jen )))))))))))))))))))

Will you be able to talk to him on the phone? or keep contact online? I know it isn't the same but it can still be a nice way to communicate.
Are you in therapy? If not it may be a good idea to consider beginning therapy because you can learn some coping skills to help pick yourself up on your bad days.
I am sorry that your brother is moving, change is always difficult. I also recommend sticking around here we are a very supportive group of people.

[DaisyG]

Hey, I think Gimmeice is right sometimes you speak more and visit more with people when they are further away. I know from experience that you spend more quality time communicating with them. A little space may also help you work out what you need to do for yourself. Someone to help is always great, but we all have to learn to deal with ourselves. If you have a therapist they will help you to do that on your own. Perhaps it might even be the push you need and soon you will wonder what you worried about. It sounds scarey but as newbie I can already see that the help and support here is amazing so keep posting your worries.

Take care,
G

[jen_9_crimes]

im in therapy now! and i agree with yall! its just going to be so much harder without him i cant still talk to him everyday on the phone and text but it not the same ya know! i guess i just freaked out for a minute! but thanks!