[gamila]

I have a HUGE problem at least for me, hmm, it is difficult for me to explain but i will try. I am 19 yrs old when ever I watch a ROMANTIC movie i get affected with the actor with his passion ,his love and kindness so much that everyday I am thinking about him and I got to say that is MY PRINCE CHARMING . DONT LAUGH , I get desperate , my heart does not stop beating. My life goes up side down . I thought may be because I am at teenage age, but that does not work ,all my friends do not pass through my experience. I am TORTURING ............. HELP Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[silver_moon]

((((((((((((((((((((((((gamila))))))))))))))))))))))
I am not sure wether to ask this or not... but do you feel unloved by others? Sometimes we try and replace what we don't have in our lives with 'wishes' fantasies if you like. It's common for people to want what's in a film, after all they nearly all end so perfectly.

Wish I could help more
Take care,
Molly

[pegasus]

(((((( gamila ))))))

How is this affecting your day to day life? It's ok to get immersed in a film and enjoy it as long as you are clear that it is not reality. Are you having a difficult time in your life and wanting a knight in shining armour to come along and rescue you?

[Puffyprue]

Originally Posted by gamila

I have a HUGE problem at least for me, hmm, it is difficult for me to explain but i will try. I am 19 yrs old when ever I watch a ROMANTIC movie i get affected with the actor with his passion ,his love and kindness so much that everyday I am thinking about him and I got to say that is MY PRINCE CHARMING . DONT LAUGH , I get desperate , my heart does not stop beating. My life goes up side down . I thought may be because I am at teenage age, but that does not work ,all my friends do not pass through my experience. I am TORTURING ............. HELP Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

i do understand that most of us have an idol iam really crazy with valentino rossi especially with his bike ,r u like him when he act only on that movie or on every movie that he there?? try to find out about him more deeper all the rumors..issue and everything maybe u will change ur mind.... hope it helps .....

[gamila]

Originally Posted by silver_moon

((((((((((((((((((((((((gamila))))))))))))))))))))))
I am not sure wether to ask this or not... but do you feel unloved by others? Sometimes we try and replace what we don't have in our lives with 'wishes' fantasies if you like. It's common for people to want what's in a film, after all they nearly all end so perfectly.

Wish I could help more
Take care,
Molly

I know that people loves me, but sometimes I wish them to ensure their love to me and repeat it all the time . For me this is painful , I feel with weakness . Their are many boys who are inlove with me but I have never felt with love to any body , I mean I have never loved before......SouNdS weird , I know that sometomes people say to me you are complicated . I want the one who loves to stay with him the rest of my life but to at that time of course because I am still teenager.

[gamila]

Originally Posted by pegasus

(((((( gamila ))))))

How is this affecting your day to day life? It's ok to get immersed in a film and enjoy it as long as you are clear that it is not reality. Are you having a difficult time in your life and wanting a knight in shining armour to come along and rescue you?

It affects me all the time , everyday . Can you imagine how this is painful , I am trying to get rid of what is happening to me....but I really can not tolerate this any more

[pegasus]

(((((((( gamila ))))))))

So it is like an obsession and is making you very unhappy. I think it would be helpful for you to talk to a counsellor or therapist and discuss it at length.