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Old Feb 13, 2009, 12:52 AM
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It will soon be Valentine's Day and I'm still single!

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Old Feb 13, 2009, 02:43 AM
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iam single tooo....(((((((((((((zen)))))))))))
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Old Feb 13, 2009, 02:56 AM
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I have a boyfriend and i still dispise valentines day
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Old Feb 13, 2009, 03:29 AM
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The good thing for me is I don't have to work on Sat. I'm gonna hide and wait until everything goes back to normal
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Old Feb 13, 2009, 04:55 AM
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I think I'd rather be working... keep my mind off things. Valentines day wouldn't normally bother me... but for reasons this year it is and a lot!
I'm gonna struggle tomorrow... even today, knowing it's coming is constantly on my mind.

(((((((((ZEN))))))))) (((((((((PRUE))))))))) (((((((((RACHIE))))))))) (((((((((EXI)))))))))
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Old Feb 13, 2009, 07:18 AM
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HUGE HUGS FOR EVERYONE!!!

I hate Valentines too. It makes me bitter and sad every single year. I've always thought it's kind of a cruel holiday. I'm going to hide out with a cheesy movie and maybe a tub of ice cream until it passes me by.
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Old Feb 13, 2009, 08:46 AM
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((Zen))) i remember those days and it is a pain like no other known.. in the year 2000, a time of change, i chose something different for the dreaded holiday.. i tried a different kind of love that time.. i stood and looked and saw hearts, smiles, hugs, togetherness and i felt joy for the love that is in our world.. i chose to honor what others had, what seemed so good and, love being the most spoken of reason for existence, i decided not to abhor, but embrace.. all... everything around me and this day became a day of love, not only romantic love, but love for all and still, not single as before, i feel this shared community love even tho the ads say its for some romantic getaway somewhere.. for me, it is both and even when i am alone (never), it will still be a community love...
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Old Feb 13, 2009, 11:28 AM
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*hugs*

Until a few weeks ago I'd have been dreading it too. Then someone asked me out and I realised that I wasn't ready for a relationship right now XD

*hugs* Valentines day sucks. Being with someone doesnt always make you happy
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Old Feb 14, 2009, 10:01 PM
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I hear ya!!!!!!!!!!!!! me too.....
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Old Feb 14, 2009, 10:12 PM
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Dear (((Zen)))))))))))))))))))))))))
You are never alone here. I know thats not the same . We do all care for you thou ., You are a good person.
Years ago I thought forever i would be alone.
Valentines day is not the gifts, not the get away, not even the flowers;
Its about love. Sharing that. Little ways we can do that. ......
please know i care and think you are a very kind person
muffy
Thanks for this!
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Old Feb 14, 2009, 10:20 PM
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What's wrong with being single......I love it.....only thing I like is having someone around to talk to other than my 6 doggies, but the price one pays when they aren't single is more than I will ever pay again. I'm not divorced yet...probably never will go through with the divorce for debt reasons ( I refuse to take on 1/2 of his debts that are out there in collection & would loose everthing in a bankruptcy)......I would never get married again anyway, so it doesn't matter if I stay married to the jerk or not.

I celebrate Valentines day for myself....my birthday comes only 10 days before valentines day....I have more problems with that not being celebrated than a stupid day made up by people who love to comercialize things
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Old Feb 15, 2009, 08:13 AM
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