[lmg103]

not responding to everyone's posts here. i feel awful because everyone always responds to what I say but sometimes I just don't know what to say or don't wanna say the wrong thing and make someone more upset. but i'm going to work on trying to post more to people. but i just wanted to apologize.

hugs

[Puffyprue]

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no need to apologized we understand

[turquoisesea]

ditto, no need to apologize

sometimes, if I dun know what to say to a post, and still want to show the poster that someone read and cared I'll send a hug, because I DO care and want them to know someone cared enough to read the message

but no worries about not posting, is not a bad thing

[brephi]

IMG103, don't think we don't understand--we do. Just drop us a line to let us know that you are OK. You don't have to say anything special. A Hello is good enough.

Anyway, I just wanted to say HELLO TO YOU. Hope you doing OK.

[Mr.Mike]

This site if loaded with some of the nicest people. I have always considered myself a very together person. And to admit I have a disorder has been difficult for me to accept. Therapy is not something I thought I would ever need. I thought if you needed a therapist, was a sign of weakness. And I think my wife thinks that also--but she reminds me I need one. It just means she thinks I am weak--that doesn't feel good.

Please don't misunderstand what I am saying. There are many people that don't need therapy or deal with disorders, and I always considered myself someone that can handle stuff on my own. But this is definitly something that I have failed controlling or overcoming.

My problem is mistrust, anxiety, and probably some paranoia. I usually find myself in the forum of Anxiety, Panic, &... but because of those insecurities, I find myself depressed at times because I can't satisfy my worries or suspicions and my wife isn't always understanding.

Thanks for listening to me. It's nice to get this stuff off my chest and talk with someone that doesn't judge me for my challenge.

[kittenkirk]

In this day and age getting help and talking to someone about what's going on is acceptable today. It wasn't like that say 50 years ago.
We're come to a place where we have learned that feelings and emotions are the causes of the way we react to a situation. Once we recognize that, and can get a handle on that, we'd made the first step in our recovery. Good Luck! and hang in there. Your wife made say things because she loves you and doesn't say it the way you want to hear it. Cherish her. We need to learn to love ourselves first and emulate that love to others.

lmg. Hey girl. I found this thread and wanting to thank you for helping me. I hope you try to do what we talked about. I love you very much.

Love and Peace,
Kathy

[lmg103]

thank you for helping me

i'm going to try and do what we talked about to the best that i can