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Jul 16, 2009, 09:53 AM
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In a few hrs I will be seeing "R".
Had session with T and think I am prepared. It's her stuff. Don't get sucked in. Breathe. Go with NO expectations, hopes, guilt or "fix-it tools". I can deal with this. Insiders will be in a safe place inside yet able to "see" that sister is grown up. Not the same person she was in "their time". PLEASE keep us in your thoughts, prayers, good energy....whatever. Need to know that there are those supporting me--literally. THANKS |
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Jul 16, 2009, 10:33 AM
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Jul 16, 2009, 10:35 AM
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I am and will be thinking about you
good luck, I hope it goes well
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Jul 16, 2009, 10:36 AM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{ White iris }}}}}}}}}}}}
in my thoughts and prayers that the meeting will al go well and all inside will continue to feel safe and secure but will be aware of what is happening. Know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.........you have prepared well so hang in there and see what the visit can bring. good luck silentones 
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Jul 16, 2009, 11:52 AM
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((((((((((((((((( white iris ))))))))))))))))))
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Jul 17, 2009, 09:38 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((white iris))))))))))))))))))))))))) I hope things went well.
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Jul 17, 2009, 10:15 AM
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I hope it went well too. I have some visiting coming up and I am scared and worried.
Was it tiring? 
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Jul 17, 2009, 07:40 PM
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Yesterday's visit went surprisingly well
 Kept to my plan. stayed for about 2-1/2 hrs. didn't take any of the "bate" she put out there. Still processing but saw T today. Learned a new mantra: I love the life I NOW have. Thank you all for your support. Now to get back into the swing and life in the present. Not that things haven't been stirred up, but T will be away all next week so I will be doing more in the way of grounding work and focusing on each "today" and what RL things need to be done--like the garden is way over producing faster than I can eat, give away or freeze. Gotta love it!!! Last yr we had a non productive garden--this yr it is flourishing.  Again many thanks for your support, caring and love. |
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Jul 17, 2009, 07:57 PM
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Garden is flourishing...and so are you!!
Very glad the sister meeting went well. Good for you!
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Jul 17, 2009, 10:04 PM
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Jul 19, 2009, 09:14 AM
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yay! I'm so glad it went well
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Jul 21, 2009, 09:16 AM
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Wow! Great Work Iris!
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Jul 21, 2009, 01:52 PM
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that is wonderful! good for y'all for not taking her bait!
and an excellent mantra. thanks for such a positive post, and sharing your struggle. twilight
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