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Old Aug 11, 2009, 12:01 PM
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went to see T today for usual appointment and when we got there T wasn't there( usual T) it was a replacement for her this T ( anita ) wanted us to talk................erm like why??? why do that??? we dont understand ????and our T wont be there next week either is she trying to dump us and dont know how to tell us..............everyone is scared and now gone into hiding and wont come out now what do we do???? anyone got any suggestions.....??? do we go next week or just go without til our T comes back

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Old Aug 11, 2009, 12:21 PM
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Wow, how scary! Did this new T say how long your T would be gone? I'm so sorry this was dropped so unexpectedly. I can't imagine being expected to talk to someone else.

I'm on the fence on what to do. For me, I couldn't do it. Too many trust issues. But it might be helpful to go and see this T. Perhaps her just talking to you will give some support.

Whatever you decide, we support you. Let us know how it goes.
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Old Aug 11, 2009, 01:09 PM
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Maybe you should call your t if you have their phone number outside the office and express your concerns. Let them know you don't feel comfortable talking to a stranger and if you really aren't that comfortable maybe cancel next weeks apointment until you can see your regular T
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Old Aug 11, 2009, 03:13 PM
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Wow, how scary! Did this new T say how long your T would be gone? I'm so sorry this was dropped so unexpectedly. I can't imagine being expected to talk to someone else.

I'm on the fence on what to do. For me, I couldn't do it. Too many trust issues. But it might be helpful to go and see this T. Perhaps her just talking to you will give some support.

Whatever you decide, we support you. Let us know how it goes.
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no one knows how ;long it will be and anita ( T today) said that they dont know how long my T will be awaywe dont think will be able to go next week we just not sure at all................its a big scary mess

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Old Aug 11, 2009, 03:16 PM
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Maybe you should call your t if you have their phone number outside the office and express your concerns. Let them know you don't feel comfortable talking to a stranger and if you really aren't that comfortable maybe cancel next weeks apointment until you can see your regular T

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we cant call T as she is on emergency leave.............that is all we aare told...maybe we wont go next week we just dont know

we hope she is ok.........................oh dear this dont feel very good at all

liz
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Old Aug 11, 2009, 06:37 PM
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(((silentand scared))) We're so sorry for this major upset. It is scary. We wish we could offer you something concrete but we're here with you.
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Old Aug 11, 2009, 06:58 PM
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(((silentand scared))) We're so sorry for this major upset. It is scary. We wish we could offer you something concrete but we're here with you.
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thank you for being here with us....................l think we need it right now

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Old Aug 11, 2009, 07:15 PM
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hi silent an scared

sorry for what happened. i wouldnt like it much not to get called and told so i could say if i wanted to go or not go. it wouldnt feel good to find some one else in my doctors chair. do what feels good for you for the next time. for me i wouldnt go cause i dont want to talk about my stuff with some one i dont know and that doesnt know me. i hope your t is ok and i hope you could be ok to. heres a big hug

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Old Aug 11, 2009, 07:39 PM
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hi silent an scared

sorry for what happened. i wouldnt like it much not to get called and told so i could say if i wanted to go or not go. it wouldnt feel good to find some one else in my doctors chair. do what feels good for you for the next time. for me i wouldnt go cause i dont want to talk about my stuff with some one i dont know and that doesnt know me. i hope your t is ok and i hope you could be ok to. heres a big hug

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thank you so much for understanding where we are with this and for the great hugs too.....................we hope T is ok too

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Old Aug 12, 2009, 04:40 AM
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